How to Deal With the Narcissist’s Smear Campaign?

the narcissist smear campaign

The narcissist can’t seem to get the hint that I don’t want anything to do with them! They’ve reached everyone- my friends, my family, and even my boss! All the lies- they claimed I abused them, stole money from them, and otherwise ruined their life. Everything is a lie, but they don’t see it that … Read more

Why Do Narcissists Come Back to Old Relationships?

why do narcissists come back to old relationships

A common question asked by men and women who have been in a relationship with a narcissist, is do narcissists come back to old relationships? It is often the feeling of loss and despair that leads the jilted partner down this road of enquiry. The answer to this question depends on the type of narcissist … Read more

How To Stop Being a Narcissist?

how to stop being a narcissist

“It wasn’t until I went through the horrible ‘use-and-abuse’ cycles too many times that I lost everything, and it dawned on me, that it was me.” a recovering narcissist These are the words of an anonymous recovering narcissist, who posted an open letter to empaths over at Elephant Journal. They also confess… “I was the … Read more

Why The Hoovering Narcissist Won’t Leave You Alone

hoovering narcissist

You’ve broken up or divorced for several months now. You’re ready to heal and move on, but the narcissist has different plans for your future.  No matter what you say or do, they keep coming back into your life. It’s frustrating and confusing- you don’t want them there, but they can’t seem to accept that. … Read more

What is Gaslighting in Narcissism?

what is gaslighting in narcissism

“I never said that! What are you talking about?” “You’re imagining things!” “You keep forgetting things. I’m worried about you.” These are examples of gaslighting. It’s a manipulation technique in which the gaslighter tries to make the victim question their own senses, perceptions, and memory. Gaslighting is not unknown to the Narcissist and they use … Read more

Can a Narcissist Change?

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“They did the personality test, and by process of elimination, it was concluded that it was narcissistic personality disorder. So from that moment on, I started treatment, because I didn’t want to have that.” Those are the words of a narcissist interviewed by SBS in 2019. After six and a half years of treatment he … Read more