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Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

Think It’s Love? That’s Exactly How Narcissists Manipulate You

Think It’s Love? That’s Exactly How Narcissists Manipulate You

Don’t you love love? If it’s real love, it’s unbeaten. Nothing can even come close…

8 Examples How Narcissists Turn Meaner, Pettier, and More Unhinged at Home

8 Examples How Narcissists Turn Meaner, Pettier, and More Unhinged at Home

You’d think home would be your safe space, wouldn’t you? The place where you can…

Why Narcissists Truly Believe They’re Loving People (Even While They Hurt You)

Why Narcissists Truly Believe They’re Loving People (Even While They Hurt You)

Of all the weird lies to fall out of their mouth, you have to hand…

10 Things You’ve Survived in a Narcissistic Relationship That Most People Couldn’t Last One Day With

10 Things You’ve Survived in a Narcissistic Relationship That Most People Couldn’t Last One Day With

Narcissistic relationships shouldn’t be what makes us stronger, but unfortunately for many, they are. Surviving…

10 Everyday Things Narcissists Use To Abuse You

10 Everyday Things Narcissists Use To Abuse You

I wish there was just one everyday thing narcissists used to abuse you. In fact,…

6 Reasons Why People Who Cheat Keep Lying After They’re Caught

6 Reasons Why People Who Cheat Keep Lying After They’re Caught

You’ve done it. You’ve caught them cheating. Before I give you a huge congratulations-type virtual…

8 Outrageous “Rules” Narcissists Force on Their Partners

8 Outrageous “Rules” Narcissists Force on Their Partners

I always say rules are there to be broken, and this topic is certainly affiliated…

The Creepy Ritual Narcissists Perform Right Before You Try to Fall Asleep

The Creepy Ritual Narcissists Perform Right Before You Try to Fall Asleep

Right before you fall asleep, narcissists want to make sure that you will get none.…

9 Hobbies Narcissists Pretend to Love Just to Look Impressive

9 Hobbies Narcissists Pretend to Love Just to Look Impressive

Hobbies are some of life’s good reasons to be cheerful. A spot of swimming, a…

Narcissists Love To Torture You With Horrible Gifts For Christmas, Here Are 10 Examples

Narcissists Love To Torture You With Horrible Gifts For Christmas, Here Are 10 Examples

Christmas is a time for giving and receiving, and I know you will have spent…

Why Narcissists Always Start a Fight Right Before Midnight At NYE

Why Narcissists Always Start a Fight Right Before Midnight At NYE

As the clock nears the magic hour of new beginnings, narcissists have a toxic habit…

The New Year Promises Narcissists Make — And Break — Within 24 Hours

The New Year Promises Narcissists Make — And Break — Within 24 Hours

I promise to be… Next year will be… You have my word that next year,…

Why Narcissists Make Big Resolutions They Never Intend to Keep

Why Narcissists Make Big Resolutions They Never Intend to Keep

If the time for resolutions is near, I want you to think about the kinds…

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Ruin Christmas On Purpose

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Ruin Christmas On Purpose

If you ever wanted enough reasons why narcissists ruin Christmas on purpose, you have found…

If You Are Dating a Narcissist At Christmas…You Better Run

If You Are Dating a Narcissist At Christmas…You Better Run

I hear you are dating a narcissist, am I right? Okay, now we have it…

Why Narcissists Love Playing the Victim on Christmas Morning

Why Narcissists Love Playing the Victim on Christmas Morning

It’s Christmas morning! Finally, the best day of the year is here and you are…

How Narcissists Ruin Christmas One “Innocent” Comment at a Time

How Narcissists Ruin Christmas One “Innocent” Comment at a Time

You’re in a room surrounded by people you love. It’s Christmas, and the merriment is…

10 Holiday Manipulation Games Narcissists Wait All Year to Play

10 Holiday Manipulation Games Narcissists Wait All Year to Play

With each turning page of the annual calendar, the narcissist gets that little more excited.…

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Hate Everything You Like

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Hate Everything You Like

Come on. Are you even remotely surprised that this is even a topic? Narcissists famously…

Why Christmas Turns Narcissists Into Even Bigger Monsters

Why Christmas Turns Narcissists Into Even Bigger Monsters

If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, or even living with a family…

How Narcissists Trick You Into Financing Your Own Birthday Present Without Realizing It

How Narcissists Trick You Into Financing Your Own Birthday Present Without Realizing It

Happy Birthday to you… Okay. I won’t sing. But it is your day, and you…

Why a Narcissist Will Beg You for $5 Even When They Have $500 in Their Pocket

Why a Narcissist Will Beg You for $5 Even When They Have $500 in Their Pocket

You know exactly what I’m talking about, right? The narcissist, with their pockets full of…

How to Never Be Tricked by a Narcissist Ever Again

How to Never Be Tricked by a Narcissist Ever Again

I know the past has left you reeling with anger that you were tricked by…

The Real Reason Narcissists Freak Out When You Start Doing THIS Simple Thing

The Real Reason Narcissists Freak Out When You Start Doing THIS Simple Thing

Narcissists are known to try to keep a lid on freaking out. They want as…