The narcissist can’t seem to get the hint that I don’t want anything to do with them! They’ve reached everyone- my friends, my family, and even my boss! All the lies- they claimed I abused them, stole money from them, and otherwise ruined their life. Everything is a lie, but they don’t see it that … Read more
A common question asked by men and women who have been in a relationship with a narcissist, is do narcissists come back to old relationships? It is often the feeling of loss and despair that leads the jilted partner down this road of enquiry. The answer to this question depends on the type of narcissist … Read more
“It wasn’t until I went through the horrible ‘use-and-abuse’ cycles too many times that I lost everything, and it dawned on me, that it was me.” a recovering narcissist These are the words of an anonymous recovering narcissist, who posted an open letter to empaths over at Elephant Journal. They also confess… “I was the … Read more
You’ve broken up or divorced for several months now. You’re ready to heal and move on, but the narcissist has different plans for your future. No matter what you say or do, they keep coming back into your life. It’s frustrating and confusing- you don’t want them there, but they can’t seem to accept that. … Read more
Would a narcissist ever apologize? Yes. Would they ever be truly sorry? No. People often assume that narcissists never apologize for their wrongdoings. However, this myth isn’t true. In fact, some narcissists are more than happy to tell you they’re sorry. The difference, however, is that their apologies lack sincerity and merit. That’s because their … Read more
“I never said that! What are you talking about?” “You’re imagining things!” “You keep forgetting things. I’m worried about you.” These are examples of gaslighting. It’s a manipulation technique in which the gaslighter tries to make the victim question their own senses, perceptions, and memory. Gaslighting is not unknown to the Narcissist and they use … Read more
If there is one underestimated character trait of the narcissist, it is that they are exceptional actors. Their acting skills are so superior, they are able to fool everyone around them. They are the most confident, self-assured, courageous, and fearless people on the planet. But the reality is they are driven by underlying feelings of … Read more
Most of us think we know someone with a narcissistic personality disorder – they’re the Instagram influencer, the self-absorbed jerk at the gym, the histrionic reality TV star we hate-watch every week. However, Narcissism takes many forms and not all of them are quite so obvious. Narcissists can also be analytical, introverted, brooding, and bookish, … Read more
A twin flame relationship is what most people would refer to as a ‘soul mate’ relationship. Although, it is said you can have many soul mates in your life but only one true twin flame. A twin flame is said to be your ‘soul mirror’, your exact match or perfect fit, someone who is made … Read more
“They did the personality test, and by process of elimination, it was concluded that it was narcissistic personality disorder. So from that moment on, I started treatment, because I didn’t want to have that.” Those are the words of a narcissist interviewed by SBS in 2019. After six and a half years of treatment he … Read more