Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

11 Things Narcissists Do That Keep You Up at Night

11 Things Narcissists Do That Keep You Up at Night

Before you met the narcissist, you were probably far more likely to be able to…

Why a Narcissist Would Rather Take $5 From You Than Spend Their Own

Why a Narcissist Would Rather Take $5 From You Than Spend Their Own

You know exactly what I’m talking about, right? The narcissist, with their pockets full of…

What Narcissists Do to You Right Before They Cut You Off Completely

What Narcissists Do to You Right Before They Cut You Off Completely

The orchestration of a narcissist cutting you off goes under the radar of every victim…

Why Narcissists Ruin Important Days Before They Even Begin

Why Narcissists Ruin Important Days Before They Even Begin

When a narcissist ruins important days, don’t for one second think it is a coincidence.…

THIS is What Narcissistic Abuse Does To Your Body

THIS is What Narcissistic Abuse Does To Your Body

When a narcissist mistreats you, it can play havoc with your mind. Am I imagining…

11 Things Narcissists Start Doing Over Fifty

11 Things Narcissists Start Doing Over Fifty

Before you get ahead of yourself, let’s look at all narcissists over 50 through one,…

What Loving a Narcissist Eventually Costs You

What Loving a Narcissist Eventually Costs You

Upon first meeting, loving the narcissist seems like the most intensely passionate thing to do.…

9 Things Narcissists Take From You That You Can’t Explain to Others

9 Things Narcissists Take From You That You Can’t Explain to Others

When you can’t explain something fully to another person, it becomes easier to stay quiet.…

10 Things You Lose About Yourself When You’re With a Narcissist

10 Things You Lose About Yourself When You’re With a Narcissist

Nobody loses themselves all at once, but when you’re with a narcissist, there are numerous…

Narcissists Don’t Break You — They Remove Everything That Makes You Feel Alive

Narcissists Don’t Break You — They Remove Everything That Makes You Feel Alive

People mistake heartbreak for being loud. The slamming doors, the shouting over coffee in the…

This Is How Narcissists Erase the Life You Had Before Them

This Is How Narcissists Erase the Life You Had Before Them

At first, you won’t notice your life shrinking when you meet the narcissist. Things like…

Loving a Narcissist Comes With a Price You Never Agreed To

Loving a Narcissist Comes With a Price You Never Agreed To

When you fall in love with a narcissist, you don’t realize they’re a narcissist. You…

Weird Things Narcissists Do When They Think You’re Asleep

Weird Things Narcissists Do When They Think You’re Asleep

It’s time for bed. Have you had a good day? How about a spray of…

Weird Ways Narcissists Watch You Without Saying Anything

Weird Ways Narcissists Watch You Without Saying Anything

Just because a narcissist has a voice, doesn’t mean they are going to use it…

10 Reasons Why Your Whole Life With The Narcissist is a Lie

10 Reasons Why Your Whole Life With The Narcissist is a Lie

Breathe in, and breathe out. That’s all you can really do when you discover your…

7 Reasons Why You Will Never Get The Truth Out of a Narcissist

7 Reasons Why You Will Never Get The Truth Out of a Narcissist

I know you want it so badly, but the big question remains: Will you ever…

How Narcissists End Up Living Later in Life

How Narcissists End Up Living Later in Life

If you think narcissism dilutes with age, I strongly encourage you to think again. It…

The One Thing Narcissists Can’t Handle Losing

The One Thing Narcissists Can’t Handle Losing

If they can help it, a narcissist won’t lose anything. They don’t want to let…

Why Narcissists Start Arguments for No Reason at All

Why Narcissists Start Arguments for No Reason at All

It’s typical of a narcissist to want to keep drama alive in their relationships. You…

The Creepy Things Narcissists Do When They’re Bored With You

The Creepy Things Narcissists Do When They’re Bored With You

Narcissists are creepy all the time, but they can take their creepiness to another level…

The One Thing Narcissists Do So You Will Never Get Closure

The One Thing Narcissists Do So You Will Never Get Closure

The cruel nature of a narcissist can only really be seen fully the moment they…

The Stuff You Don’t See in Public: 12 Disturbing Things Narcissist Parents Do

The Stuff You Don’t See in Public: 12 Disturbing Things Narcissist Parents Do

When the doors are closed, you assume you’re going to be safe in your own…

13 Reasons You Can Never Trust a Narcissist With Anything

13 Reasons You Can Never Trust a Narcissist With Anything

I am standing in front of you with a huge red flag. I am waving…

Narcissists Never Recover From These Things After You Leave

Narcissists Never Recover From These Things After You Leave

Boo-hoo for the narcissist. You left them. Does anybody want to pass them a tissue…