Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

11 Things Narcissists Disguise as Love That Are Actually Abuse

11 Things Narcissists Disguise as Love That Are Actually Abuse

Love is the kind of concept that is not up for debate. We should all agree…

The Sneaky Financial Tricks Narcissists Pull 48 Hours Before They Disappear

The Sneaky Financial Tricks Narcissists Pull 48 Hours Before They Disappear

If you hadn’t already discovered, narcissists are obsessed with money. To them, anything revolving around…

Narcissists Will Say Anything to Avoid Paying You Back — Here Is Exactly What That Sounds Like

Narcissists Will Say Anything to Avoid Paying You Back — Here Is Exactly What That Sounds Like

If you’ve been unlucky enough to give out money to a narcissist only to never…

What Happened to a Narcissist Before You Met Them That Explains Everything They Have Done to You

What Happened to a Narcissist Before You Met Them That Explains Everything They Have Done to You

A while back, you met a narcissist. You thought they were everything you could possibly…

If You Are Going to Stay With a Narcissist This Is the Only Way to Protect Your Happiness

If You Are Going to Stay With a Narcissist This Is the Only Way to Protect Your Happiness

I would always advise people to leave a narcissist if it were a realistic and…

THIS is How Lonely it Feels Living With a Narcissist

THIS is How Lonely it Feels Living With a Narcissist

There comes a point in victim’s lives where, if they can ask themselves the following…

Why Staying Silent Is One of the Most Powerful Things You Can Do to a Narcissist

Why Staying Silent Is One of the Most Powerful Things You Can Do to a Narcissist

Seeing as all narcissists thrive on your reactions, what kind of power do you think…

7 Cruel Things Narcissists Do Immediately After You Forgive Them

7 Cruel Things Narcissists Do Immediately After You Forgive Them

It’s completely understandable that you don’t want to be treated unfairly or unkindly. If you…

10 Ways Narcissists Convince Themselves They Are Good People

10 Ways Narcissists Convince Themselves They Are Good People

We all know that narcissists are fundamentally evil people, regardless of how good they act…

When a Narcissist Does This One Thing It Means They Have Already Left You for Good

When a Narcissist Does This One Thing It Means They Have Already Left You for Good

Narcissists love a revolving door, and where relationships are concerned, they are known to keep…

What a Narcissist Does the Moment You Break Down That No Caring Partner Would Ever Do

What a Narcissist Does the Moment You Break Down That No Caring Partner Would Ever Do

There are certain points in your relationship that will confirm whether or not you’re dating…

10 Ways Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Release Their Stress

10 Ways Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Release Their Stress

Experiencing ongoing stress isn’t good for anybody, and for people who have survived narcissistic abuse,…

A Narcissist Does Not Apologize After Raging — They Do These Things Instead

A Narcissist Does Not Apologize After Raging — They Do These Things Instead

It’s not fun at all, is it? I’m talking, of course, about having to endure…

Narcissistic Abuse Victims Feel The Most Stressed When The Narcissist Does These 8 Things

Narcissistic Abuse Victims Feel The Most Stressed When The Narcissist Does These 8 Things

Being a victim of narcissistic abuse means you’re going to have to tolerate the kind…

The Things a Narcissist Steals From You So Slowly You Don’t Notice Until They’re Gone

The Things a Narcissist Steals From You So Slowly You Don’t Notice Until They’re Gone

If you had a big jar of dollar coins, and somebody came along and took…

Daily Humiliations Narcissistic Partners Expect You to Swallow Without Question

Daily Humiliations Narcissistic Partners Expect You to Swallow Without Question

A game narcissists love to play is called, ‘How much can I humiliate you today?’…

How a Narcissistic Mother Keeps Every Family Member Exactly Where She Wants Them

How a Narcissistic Mother Keeps Every Family Member Exactly Where She Wants Them

Nothing is more scary and complicated than family dynamics that include a narcissist. As much…

The Disrespectful Sounds a Narcissist Makes That Cut Deeper Than Any Word Ever Could

The Disrespectful Sounds a Narcissist Makes That Cut Deeper Than Any Word Ever Could

Only a part of narcissistic abuse is about the words that fall out of the…

Why Every Gift From a Narcissist Manages to Feel Like an Insult in Disguise

Why Every Gift From a Narcissist Manages to Feel Like an Insult in Disguise

It’s so nice to receive gifts, especially when the person offering to you knows how…

The Real Narcissist Only Comes Out When You’re Alone Together — And It’s Unsettling

The Real Narcissist Only Comes Out When You’re Alone Together — And It’s Unsettling

A narcissist’s true colors are kept well hidden when they are in public. Surrounded by…

13 Moments That Show a Narcissist Shouldn’t Be a Parent

13 Moments That Show a Narcissist Shouldn’t Be a Parent

Shock horror: Narcissists make for terrible parents. Not only are they terrible, but they also…

You Can Spot a Narcissist on Social Media in Under 60 Seconds, Here’s Exactly How

You Can Spot a Narcissist on Social Media in Under 60 Seconds, Here’s Exactly How

Narcissists love getting online. For them, the virtual world is another world where they can be…

11 Strange Replies Narcissists Use to Dodge Simple Questions

11 Strange Replies Narcissists Use to Dodge Simple Questions

When you approach a narcissist with a simple question, you would like to hope they…

11 Annoying Ways Your Narcissist Is Stealing Your Sleep 

11 Annoying Ways Your Narcissist Is Stealing Your Sleep 

Sleep is precious! Without it, who are we all? As much as it’s normal to…