Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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If You’re With a Narcissist, Your Phone Isn’t Private

If You’re With a Narcissist, Your Phone Isn’t Private

I could write about the drawbacks of being with a narcissist all day, but let’s…

What Narcissists Are Really Doing on Their Phone

What Narcissists Are Really Doing on Their Phone

Trying to prize a phone out of a narcissist’s hand is unlike anything you will…

The Moment You Become a Threat to a Narcissist is the Moment They Show Their True Face

The Moment You Become a Threat to a Narcissist is the Moment They Show Their True Face

Narcissists want you to exist in their life as nothing but a silent servant. You…

10 Things Men Mistake for Love When Dealing With a Female Narcissist

10 Things Men Mistake for Love When Dealing With a Female Narcissist

When you meet a female narcissist, it’s easy to assume that you’re receiving feelings of…

9 Ways Female Narcissists Control Men Without Them Realizing

9 Ways Female Narcissists Control Men Without Them Realizing

Female narcissists are the same kind of drain on people as male narcissists, but we…

The Last Thing a Narcissist Does Before Cutting You Off

The Last Thing a Narcissist Does Before Cutting You Off

Right before a narcissist cuts you off, their mind is working on a totally different…

This Is How Narcissists End Relationships

This Is How Narcissists End Relationships

Narcissists aren’t brave. They aren’t honest, and they don’t communicate with good intentions. Instead, they…

This Is the Final Attack a Narcissist Launches Before Leaving You For Good

This Is the Final Attack a Narcissist Launches Before Leaving You For Good

Before a narcissist executes their final walk away from you, they love to think about…

12 Reasons Why Narcissists Make Terrifying Parents

12 Reasons Why Narcissists Make Terrifying Parents

Hands up if you had a narcissistic parent growing up. A lot more of you…

Watching a Narcissist Hurt Your Child Is a Different Kind of Pain

Watching a Narcissist Hurt Your Child Is a Different Kind of Pain

Narcissists make for great entertainment, but there’s nothing fun or pleasurable about witnessing one hurt…

Most Parents Don’t Realize Narcissists Do This to Their Children

Most Parents Don’t Realize Narcissists Do This to Their Children

Parents aren’t aware of the catastrophic effects of children having narcissistic parents. From the outside…

You’re Not Asking The Narcissist for Too Much—You’re Asking the Wrong Person

You’re Not Asking The Narcissist for Too Much—You’re Asking the Wrong Person

As hard as it might be to recognize, you are not too much for the…

Loving a Narcissist Means Accepting These Painful Truths

Loving a Narcissist Means Accepting These Painful Truths

Truths that you might not want to hear, I grant you. But hear me out:…

Why a Narcissist Can’t Give You What You Need (Even If They Try)

Why a Narcissist Can’t Give You What You Need (Even If They Try)

There seems to be a huge gap between what a narcissist does for you, and…

These Are the Things a Narcissist Will Never Do For You

These Are the Things a Narcissist Will Never Do For You

I could genuinely sit here all day and write down the extensive list of the…

8 Reasons Why You Can’t Trust Anyone From The Narcissist’s Family

8 Reasons Why You Can’t Trust Anyone From The Narcissist’s Family

You meet the narcissist and are introduced to their family, but something huge is off.…

11 Reasons Why Narcissists Refuse to Let You Meet Certain Friends and Relatives

11 Reasons Why Narcissists Refuse to Let You Meet Certain Friends and Relatives

Things are going really well with you and the narcissist, but there seems to be…

Why a Narcissist Wants Your $10 More Than Their Own $100

Why a Narcissist Wants Your $10 More Than Their Own $100

Repeat after me: Narcissists are obsessed with money. There has never been a more correct…

How Narcissists Slowly Steal the Joy from the Things You Love

How Narcissists Slowly Steal the Joy from the Things You Love

It’s not on, is it? Every time you express a love or satisfaction for something,…

The Fastest Way to Trigger a Narcissist? Treat Them Exactly How They Treat You

The Fastest Way to Trigger a Narcissist? Treat Them Exactly How They Treat You

I know so many of you are dying to know how to trigger a narcissist.…

10 Ways How Narcissists Keep The Children Away From You

10 Ways How Narcissists Keep The Children Away From You

There’s nothing more cutting than a narcissist who keeps your kids from you. You think…

7 Creepy Things Narcissists Do When They See You Happy

7 Creepy Things Narcissists Do When They See You Happy

A narcissist never likes to see their victim happy. They question what the smile is…

The One Thing Narcissistic Women Can’t Handle

The One Thing Narcissistic Women Can’t Handle

Narcissistic men and women mostly operate in the same way, but there are some real…

THIS is the Easiest Way to Piss off a Narcissist

THIS is the Easiest Way to Piss off a Narcissist

If I ask you if you’ve ever wanted to piss off a narcissist, would you…