About Me

Hi, my name is Alexander Burgemeester. I studied in Neuropsychology at the University of Amsterdam (The Netherlands) and completed my doctoral degree when I was 32. Currently I just turned 40 years old. I’m married to my beautiful wife who is also a (clinical) psychologist and together we discuss the topics on this website and the questions send by our readers. 

This is me enjoying a Holiday

I started this website around 8 years ago and its main goal is to educate people that are dealing with someone who has a narcissistic personality. The Narcissist comes in many forms. You could be married to one, have grown up with a narcissistic parent, or maybe you’re experiencing difficulties dealing with a narcissistic boss. 

I am writing these articles to give you more insight who the Narcissist really is. How he thinks, how he acts and the effects this behavior can have on his victims. When I write ‘he’ in the articles please note that this is for readability purposes, not because there are only male narcissists. Although more prevalent in men, women can have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. 

I try to answer most simple questions in the comments of the articles. If you have a specific or more complicated question, you can ask me for an email consultation. I will look into your email and give you an in-depth answer.


  • Hi, I am trying to find a support group in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. If you know of one can you please forward it to me.

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