You know what? You can try, and I’ll admire you for that much. You can build yourself a little fort, with a moat going all the way around the perimeters. It’d be fantastic – nobody could cross it. Your boundaries are not to be messed with. Until the narcissist comes along. Why don’t they work … Read more
You’ve just got to know somebody, and everything is perfect. You’ve been together for a while, and despite the drama, you’re both fairly happy. It’s been a few months, but you think you’ve found the one. It’s all so familiar, isn’t it? In truth, it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been with the narcissist. They … Read more
Narcissists love to cheat. They go out, see somebody who catches their eye, and exchange flirtatious comments and even numbers. Narcissists even love to flirt online. After all, what can their partner tell them off for if they don’t even know? Cue the plethora of social media and dating profiles. Ping! Beep! Yep. In the … Read more
Narcissists can’t help themselves. If they see a shiny coin in the sand, they make a beeline for it. It doesn’t matter if they already own one. In the eyes of a narcissist, you can never have enough shiny coins. What if, though, shiny coins became people? What if those people became intimate lovers of … Read more
You, like us all, juggle so much. We have our strengths, we have our challenges, and that’s life. Sometimes, being triggered can come from nowhere, and it can’t be helped. Other times, those triggers are sent by people who really should know better but don’t. Narcissists. There, I said it. Narcissists will trigger and laugh … Read more
You’re waiting, wishing and hoping, aren’t you? Why does all that energy pertain to nothing? Why are you keeping yourself from seeing the truth by assuming you’ll get what will never come? Because you’re waiting for an apology from a narcissist. They’re never going to give you what you want. The closure that comes from … Read more
Narcissists are full of a lot. The more they dance toxically around you, the more likely they are to end the dance with a humiliating comment or gesture. It’s not unusual for them to make you feel terrible, but of course, it’s more than ideal for you. You’re just the person who wants a relationship … Read more
So, let’s get this straight… You’re in love. With a narcissist. They cheat on you. They then blame you. In a nutshell, have I got it right? Cheating is never okay. I hate to say it, but it’s so common with narcissists. They cheat, then they dare to blame you for their indiscretions. What happens next … Read more
Look at what I’m doing for you. Doesn’t it prove I love you? Don’t you just want to love me right back now? Narcissists will act like they love you for reasons you may not even have considered. It’s deception at its finest, and it can truly lead people to become heartbroken. I’ve known people to deny the … Read more
Laughter is infectious. When you’re with a group of friends, you can’t help but let out a few lighthearted giggles – it’s fun and innocent. When a narcissist laughs – you know they aren’t laughing with you. They’re laughing at you. They make you feel small, frustrated, and confused. This isn’t love? Why are they … Read more