The Narcissist’s Accusations Are Actually Their Own Confessions

the narcissist's accusations are actually confessions

Did you know that narcissists often use accusations as a way to confess their insecurities? It’s a fascinating phenomenon that sheds light on their complex psychology. When a narcissist points the finger at others, accusing them of being self-centered, manipulative, or lacking empathy, they are inadvertently revealing their true nature. These accusations are subtle confessions, … Read more

How Do Narcissists Manipulate Their Partners?

Like a master puppeteer pulling invisible strings, narcissists possess a cunning ability to manipulate their partners with a calculated precision that borders on artistry. They employ various tactics that leave their victims bewildered and questioning their reality. From gaslighting to love-bombing, the methods used by narcissists are as insidious as they are effective. But how … Read more

How It Feels To Be in a Relationship with a Narcissist

How does it feel to be in a relationship with a Narcissist

Being in a long-term relationship with a narcissist can leave you with many complex emotions. The pain from a relationship with a narcissist often comes from an accumulation of small actions rather than one significant event. Bottling up these negative feelings can harm your well-being, leading to stress or sadness. Discovering that you are not … Read more

How to Force a Narcissistic Breakdown?

How to Force a Narcissistic Breakdown

A narcissistic breakdown happens when someone with narcissistic personality disorder feels vulnerable or exposed and can’t rely on their usual defenses to cope. This breakdown is a response to their narcissistic supply being cut off or changed, and it can result in narcissists acting enraged, impulsive, or extremely defensive. Because narcissists have fragile self-esteem, they … Read more

13 Signs the Narcissist Is Preparing to Discard You

13 Signs the Narcissist Is Preparing to Discard You

In the narcissistic abuse cycle, discard represents the final phase. When a narcissist discards someone, they have chosen to fully end their relationship. You’re basically dead to them, no matter how connected you two were. All narcissistic behaviors are painful, but the discard can be one of the most debilitating. It can truly feel like … Read more

5 Ways to Make a Narcissist Feel Bad for Hurting You

5 Ways to Make a Narcissist Feel Bad for Hurting You

As a rule, narcissists only care about themselves, so they will never feel bad for hurting you as long as they get what they need from the situation.  When a narcissist hurts you, it makes them feel better than you. It proves to them that they’re in control of the situation, and your emotions, which … Read more

5 Things to Never Do After Breaking Up with a Narcissist

5 Things to Never Do After Breaking Up with a Narcissist

Breaking up with a narcissist is a complicated and stressful process, and once you’ve finally managed to extricate yourself from that web of lies and deceit, you need to protect yourself and your newfound freedom.  Turning your back on someone you once loved, even if it was someone who manipulated you at every opportunity, isn’t … Read more

How to Respond to a Narcissist and Verbally Disarm Them

How to Respond to a Narcissist and Verbally Disarm Them

It’s no secret that talking to a narcissist often feels like a lose-lose situation. You’re probably used to the narcissist manipulating reality and blaming you for everything. They don’t take personal accountability for their actions and react with rage when things don’t go their way. It can all feel frustrating and discouraging.  That said, it’s important to … Read more