The Narcissist in Old Age

“Do not go gentle into that good night, / Old age should burn and rave at close of day; / Rage, rage against the dying of the light.”  ~Dylan Thomas, “Do Not Go Gentle into that Good Night” “Everything is possible for you, because you have the only two things worth having…beauty and youth”                                      ~ … Read more

Do Narcissists Come Back After Dumping You?

Do Narcissists Come Back After Dumping You?

Breaking Up With A Narcissist Breaking up with a narcissist is an emotional roller coaster. If you have read other articles or received support from a therapist on how to break up with a narcissist, you will know that the only viable way to do this is with No Contact.  However, this causes the narcissist … Read more

The Narcissist And Sex: Sexual Attitudes of a Narcissist

How The Narcissist Uses Sex To Take/Keep Control The sexual attitudes of narcissists are most peculiar- they tend to be either hyperactive or hypoactive in making love. Generally, there are two types of narcissists: the somatic narcissist (hyperactive) and the cerebral narcissist (hypoactive). The somatic narcissist gains his ‘narcissistic supply’ from other people’s reactions to … Read more

Gift-Giving for Narcissists:Buying Gifts for Self-Enhancement

Gift –giving for the narcissist in your life is easy… simply buy something that celebrates the individual-them! It is preferable to put their picture on it as just having their name engraved on a gift no longer suffices. From custom condoms featuring their face (seriously) to miniature dolls in their likeness, it’s all readily available … Read more

Why do Narcissists Lie?

Why do narcissists lie? “Because they can”…as the cliché goes. Seriously, many narcissists do lie and they lie constantly. They lie about their education, they lie about their achievements, and they lie about extramarital affairs or what they had for dinner. If someone else is boasting about their 2012 Mercedes, a narcissist will claim (s)he … Read more