I have a question for you. When something doesn’t make sense to you, how much time do you spend trying to work it out? If you really want it to be clear to you, you’ll spend a lifetime. That’s the problem many people who get involved with narcissists have. They want to be able to … Read more
Little comments or statements is all it takes to get under somebody’s skin. Who better to throw those so carelessly at the person they’re supposed to love than a narcissist? Saying whatever it takes to further abuse and manipulate you. They really have no boundaries when it comes to making you feel all emotions – … Read more
You can try and make life work with a narcissist. Getting to know one can lead to all kinds of wishes and hopes and dreams inside you, I totally get that. You want to be able to trust them as much as you want to be respected by them. Loved. In proper ways – not … Read more
If only you could really see what narcissists get up to when you aren’t looking. Would you be surprised? I think you would because it would give you real insight into the act they put on for the world to see. When narcissists are alone, you’ll not only see that act disappear – you’ll see … Read more
Let me preface this by agreeing with you on one thing: Narcissists definitely give you the impression they don’t need you – or anybody else for that matter. Yes – they want to be seen as independent. They love to look like they have everything under control without so much as a breath of support … Read more
When a narcissist seeks you out, they’re not seeking you out in a traditional manner. They’re not looking at all the memories they want to create with you and all the ways they will never hurt you or allow harm to come between you. They’re looking for why they think you will never leave them. … Read more
Shine a light on a narcissist, and all they will do is sing you a song. Your interrogation is going to do nothing – it doesn’t matter how hard you try. How do I know this? Because I see it every day at work. People are always telling me how much they try to get … Read more
If honesty is top of your list of values – congratulations – you are officially more emotionally healthy than a narcissist. Honesty is an integral part of clear communication and respect for others. Without it, I’d personally be lost. So when you find somebody you love and want to spend your time with, you naturally … Read more
How Does it End For Narcissists? Narcissists are like a really painful, long book that you have to read in order to understand. They don’t come with an index or bullet points. If they did, half their toxicity would fall through the cracks. Sadly, for people like you or me, we have to experience them … Read more
Your lack of understanding is a win for each narcissist. They will do anything for their power to override your capacity to grasp. It means they’ve got you right where they want you. But – where exactly is that? Why do they want you anywhere? As you allow what is about to follow to sink … Read more