Alexander Burgemeester
Childhoods can be coated in pain and trauma that refuses to leave or even crack into adulthood. It can also contain changes, sadness, neglect, or conflict. Where your childhood lies is in the past. Talking about it so openly to a narcissist is going to leave them with an upper hand that you aren’t even … Read more
What to expect when you’re expecting! Can I add that what not to expect is a narcissist acting so bizarrely? Or maybe you are used to their bizarre behavior, and now you have another life in the fold with a growing human inside you. Pregnant women are vulnerable – and narcissists gobble up vulnerable people like they’re … Read more
Your medical information is your business. You have a history comprising you, your experiences, any health issues or challenges you’ve had. We all have medical information. When you release your medical information to a narcissist, they have that information in the palm of their hand. They will use it in ways you didn’t even think … Read more
Before you roll out the red carpet and sashay your way into a new chapter – stop. Roll it back up. I can guarantee you haven’t been informed of the 10 dangerous mistakes people make when they leave a narcissist. How you leave them is as important as leaving them. As you read on, you’ll … Read more
Weight is now an issue that most people are brutally aware of. Whether you feel you’re too much of this, or not enough of that – weight is a strong talking point. When you decide that you want to make some changes to your own weight, you should do it because you want to, or … Read more
Okay, let’s take a moment before I go into this topic. I know what you’re all thinking. Yes is the answer. Narcissists actually have friends. Well, they’re as much “friends” as they could ever be with the narcissist, but I’d say “pawn” is far more accurate. These people are in the lives of the toxic, … Read more
The joyous occasion of when somebody you care about meets your friends for the first time is one that should be a core memory. You want it locked in, and you want to feel all warm and fuzzy inside. That’s all well and good…until the narcissist comes along and the red flag in your back … Read more
How many times have you seen a jealous narcissist live in action? Let me tell you – it’s not pretty. It’s pretty pathetic. They act like petulant children, pulling any trick out of their narcissistic hat to get back at you for being a threat to them. In fact, there are a lot of weird … Read more
If you think the narcissist is running around the house and setting up booby traps for burglars when they’re home alone – you’ve been watching one too many movies! When alone in their home, narcissists find it eerily uncomfortable. They hate the idea of their own company, and will do anything to get out of … Read more
Hearing somebody talk about you will make you stop in your tracks. What are they saying? Who is doing the talking? It’s nice when it’s nice – but not so much when you hear false claims. Of course, you’ll only hear those from people who want to drag your name through the mud… …Oh! Did … Read more