Alexander Burgemeester

If there is a narcissist in your life or anybody who displays traits of a narcissist, you are likely to have been stuck in the throes of the silent treatment.  The silent treatment isn’t a moment for them to gather their thoughts or reflect. They won’t tell you, “I might be quiet for a day … Read more

If you’re in a relationship with a narcissistic person, you probably know that narcissism takes a toll on romance. Narcissistic behaviors can lead to the downfall of a relationship. Below are ten ways narcissists destroy relationships with their spouses or significant others. Showing Complete Lack of Empathy  Some degree of empathy is required for a … Read more

Being pulled into a relationship with a narcissist can seem like fun, roses, and flattery – but this very brief yet intense period of passion often fizzles out within months or even weeks of your meeting.  Soon, the relationship goes from seductive and mysterious to “Do I even recognize this person?” As soon as you … Read more

Narcissists are great storytellers – and the more jaw-dropping the narrative – the more of an audience they will draw. To add to their grandiose view of absolutely everything, they will spin a narrative to victimize themselves as regularly as possible. In truth, they believe they truly are the victim – but you know it’s … Read more

With the continued growth of social media, you can find information about just any topic online, including relationship issues. This dynamic has called considerable attention to the effects of being in a relationship with a narcissist. If you’ve dated or even married a narcissist, you know all too well that these relationships are difficult. You … Read more

So you’ve swiped right, exchanged some witty banter, and now you’re sitting across from your new flame at their favorite café. But between the butterflies of giddy uncertainty and sips of your latte, you feel an odd feeling that your date is not who they appears to be. Could it be that you’ve stumbled upon … Read more