One day you are the greatest person on earth to them, but when you don’t do or say something they wanted you to, or you ask something of them that they don’t want to do- they demean you and ignore you. You are no longer important to them.
In many cases, victims of narcissistic abuse don’t leave the relationship, they are discarded. You will feel as if you have been left in the middle of an ocean with no anchor and no way to swim back to shore.
So what is narcissistic abuse syndrome?Well, it’s a term used to describe the common symptoms experienced by victims of narcissistic abuse.
Narcissistic rage is a reaction to Narcissistic Injury. It is a self-defense mechanism when their ego is under attack
Narcissists have a completely different playbook though. They go silent, sometimes with no end in sight.
Narcissistic rage covers a wide range of behaviors from aloofness or mild irritability to serious, physically violent attacks. A narcissist often makes unrealistic demands on those closest to them.
Yes, the narcissist uses torture and abuse but he does so as a means of punishment for perceived slights and, thus, reasserting his sense of superiority.
A narcissist may use emotional abuse, verbal abuse, mental abuse, or physical abuse. Verbal and physical abuses are straightforward-they are verbal and physical aggression directed at another person.
. They use a variety of methods of in order to obtain control over their significant other. First they “love bomb” their prey, then they threaten, degrade, shift blame, criticize, manipulate
When we first met, I thought I had found Mr. Perfect, Mr. Right. He seemed to be too good to be true. He was handsome, charming and he knew all the right people and all the right places to be.