{"id":3142,"date":"2020-09-18T13:44:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T12:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/?p=3142"},"modified":"2023-06-23T10:40:43","modified_gmt":"2023-06-23T09:40:43","slug":"why-the-hoovering-narcissist-wont-leave-you-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/why-the-hoovering-narcissist-wont-leave-you-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"Why The Hoovering Narcissist Won\u2019t Leave You Alone"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
You\u2019ve broken up or divorced for several months now. You\u2019re ready to heal and move on, but the narcissist has different plans for your future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
No matter what you say or do, they keep coming back into your life. It\u2019s frustrating and confusing- you don\u2019t want them there, but they can\u2019t seem to accept that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What\u2019s going on, and what should you do? Why won’t the hoovering Narcissist leave you alone<\/a>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Table of Contents:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Hoovering is a classic manipulation tactic designed to convince you to return to a toxic relationship. Like the well-known Hoover vacuum, hoovering seeks to \u201csuck you back in.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Some hoovering attempts are apparent. Others are far more sneaky and insidious. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Victims of narcissistic abuse may undergo several months or years of hoovering before leaving the relationship for good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Reading Suggestions:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n The hoovering narcissist is clever and quick. They know how to pique your interest because they already know your fears and weaknesses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Subsequently, they exploit those vulnerabilities to lure you back into their life. <\/p>\n\n\nUnderstanding The Narcissist And Hoovering<\/h2>\n\n\n\n