Because the relationship started out so well, and because the ugly behavior seemed to come out of nowhere, even the most well-adjusted people can get caught in the narcissist\u2019s web of deceit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Later they may realize they saw plenty of red flags but because the narcissist\u2019s initial illusion was so fantastic, the warning signs were ignored.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It can be hard to recognize a narcissist \u2014 they are so charming and convincing! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
They have spent their whole lives honing their skills. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But there are signs you can recognize in your partner that will tell you whether you\u2019re dating someone with a narcissistic personality and heading for a future rife with pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Various degrees of narcissism range from your somewhat overbearing \u2018egomaniac\u2019 to the more serious Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). <\/p>\n\n\n\n NPD is estimated to affect 1 out of 100 people, so it is a fairly common disorder. <\/p>\n\n\n\n American Psychological Association lists nine core traits of narcissism, but someone only needs five of these to qualify for NPD:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Reading Suggestions:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Have you met an unattractive guy with insufficient employment and a horrible personality who thinks he deserves to date supermodels? You may have encountered an NPD.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “After I\u00a0travel the world and write my book, I’ll sell it to Hollywood, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Johnny Depp will play me. Then I’ll start my business and consult, giving speeches worldwide for six figures…” etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He can be the No-One-Gets-Me-guy. He feels he is so unique and rare that no one can compete with him and you probably can’t even comprehend half of the amazing thoughts he has in his head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You: “Oh yes, you sounded perfect on the phone with your boss! <\/p>\n\n\n\n You flattered him but got in some good points about yourself, I can’t believe how well you handled that.” Repeat 100 times or however long it takes for him to stop fishing for compliments and positive accolades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This extends to everything from your time, your body, to yours and his possessions and special treatment\/service. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A typical example would be expecting you to have sex when he wants it, even if you’ve had a horrible day and are definitely not in the mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Of course my sister is going to drop everything and find a babysitter for the kids and rush over here to help me paint my bathroom!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n He can complain and whine for hours about all of his problems, real and imagined, but when you need to talk about your undermining coworker or a sick relative, <\/p>\n\n\n\n suddenly he is too busy or maybe just returns a blank stare and a “Oh I’m sure it will be fine.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n He may think no one else deserves a high-paying job, flashy material possessions or hot wife and will not hesitate to announce this and compare others unfavorably against himself, <\/p>\n\n\n\n as he is clearly the more deserving of these “rewards.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n He thinks he’s better than everyone, displays a marked disinterest in anything not directly related to him, <\/p>\n\n\n\n including your friends, family, or interests. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He struts around like a rooster or peacock, speaks in a loud, broadcasting voice so everyone<\/em> hears everything<\/em> he says, obsesses over appearance, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If the person you are dating shows four or five of these signs think seriously about continuing your relationship with him or her. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s a bit more complicated in the beginning when it’s not so black and white, when the person you’re dating is cleverly cloaked as Prince Charming. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s intoxicating to be around him. He’s fun and exciting. It feels like he’s your true soul connection. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s easy to lose your head and heart once you become emotionally or sexually involved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The professional psychological community is mostly in agreement that a narcissist can’t be changed much, <\/p>\n\n\n\n so either you have to endure the toxic relationship or you can leave him or her and reclaim your sanity.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" A relationship with a narcissist begins well. 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<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n9 Signs You Are Dating a Serious Narcissist<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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1) feels grandiose and self-important for reasons not supported by reality<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n2) Obsessed with fantasies about unlimited success, fame, power or omnipotence.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n3) Believes he\/she is unique and special and can be understood by -and associated with only- other unique or high-status people<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n4) Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention, and affirmation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n5) Feels a sense of entitlement<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n6) Exploits others without guilt or remorse<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n7) Is devoid of empathy<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n8) Tends to be envious of others or believes others are envious of him\/her<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n9) Displays arrogant and haughty behavior<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\nWhat are Some Earlier Signs?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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