8. You’re the One Who Made Me Behave Like That<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n\u201cYou’re the one who made me behave like that.\u201d Let’s be honest: how many times have you heard this phrase from your narcissistic partner? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Chances are it’s a phrase you hear more often than you would like. Again, they are shifting the blame onto you, allowing them to control you and boosting their superiority over you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You need to remember that narcissists need to control you in your relationship, enabling them to maintain their sense of power and self-importance. Their need to control you gives them the validation they need, helping them meet their needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you are noticing that your narcissist partner is using the above phrases more often, it is due to their need to control you, boosting their self-importance and ensuring their needs are met. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is important that you know the most common phrases used by narcissists to control you, enabling you to identify them and not give in to their control. This can help you remain strong, happy, and healthy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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