Other Considerations<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nWe\u2019ve spent a great deal of time talking about how the narcissist acts when their significant other doesn\u2019t give them their way. It\u2019s also important to keep in mind that narcissistic reactions like the ones discussed above will likely occur in any scenario in which the narcissist doesn\u2019t get what they want. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If a friend or family member doesn\u2019t give them their way, they\u2019ll probably show some of the behaviors above. Narcissistic rage and tantrums can also occur if they don\u2019t get their way at work or if they don\u2019t get special treatment while out in public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For instance, the narcissist may expect special treatment from retail workers or restaurant staff. When they don\u2019t get what they want, they are likely to become angered and have no qualms about screaming and yelling at staff. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you\u2019re the narcissist\u2019s partner, you may also pay the price for others angering the narcissist. When you try to reason with them, you\u2019ll also be on the receiving end of their rage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Or, they might take some of their frustration out on you. Ultimately, they expect you to side with them and feed their ego so they can feel superior again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Regardless of who is failing to give the narcissist exactly what they want, they\u2019re likely to react with rage, tantrums, or vindictive behavior. Not getting their way makes the narcissist feel inferior and triggers their greatest fear: being seen as anything other than special. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Narcissists aren\u2019t too fond of being told \u201cno.\u201d If you\u2019ve spent any time interacting with a narcissist, you\u2019re probably aware of this. You know that their ego can\u2019t tolerate not getting exactly what it wants. The first time you witness a narcissist not getting their way, you might be shocked or confused by their reaction. … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":20633,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20615"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20615"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20615\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20635,"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20615\/revisions\/20635"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20633"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20615"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20615"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20615"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}