{"id":18168,"date":"2023-07-12T11:31:28","date_gmt":"2023-07-12T10:31:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/?p=18168"},"modified":"2023-07-12T11:31:30","modified_gmt":"2023-07-12T10:31:30","slug":"how-to-deal-with-a-narcissistic-grown-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/how-to-deal-with-a-narcissistic-grown-child\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Deal with a Narcissistic Grown Child?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-ultimate-post-table-of-content ultp-block-d765b2\"><div class=\"ultp-block-wrapper\"><div class=\"ultp-block-toc\"><div class=\"ultp-toc-header\"><div class=\"ultp-toc-heading\">Quick Links<\/div><div class=\"ultp-collapsible-toggle ultp-toggle-collapsed ultp-collapsible-right\"><a class=\"ultp-collapsible-text ultp-collapsible-open\" href=\"javascript:;\">[Open]<\/a><a class=\"ultp-collapsible-text ultp-collapsible-hide\" href=\"javascript:;\">[Close]<\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"ultp-block-toc-style1 ultp-block-toc-body\" style=\"display:none;\"><ul class=\"ultp-toc-lists\"><li><a href=\"#_Strategies_to_Deal_with_a_Narcissistic_Son_or_Daughter\">10 Strategies to Deal with a Narcissistic Son or Daughter<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#How_Do_You_Live_With_a_Narcissistic_Child?\">How Do You Live With a Narcissistic Child?<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#FAQ\">FAQ<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>You feel at your absolute breaking point dealing with your narcissistic adult child. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re not respected. You feel like, no matter what you do, it\u2019s wrong. You\u2019re tired of all the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/what-is-gaslighting-in-narcissism\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">gaslighting and manipulation<\/a>, but you keep asking yourself,&nbsp;<em>Did I do something wrong? Did I cause this? Is it my fault?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acknowledging that your child is a narcissist is painful. Most parents experience a profound sense of grief when they come to terms with the true magnitude of their child\u2019s behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some also feel relief- there\u2019s a name for what\u2019s happening. But it can still feel like you\u2019re going to battle every day, and you must know how to take care of yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Grown-Child.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Grown-Child-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"How to Deal with a Narcissistic Grown Child\" class=\"wp-image-18173\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Grown-Child-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Grown-Child-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Grown-Child-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Grown-Child-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Grown-Child-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Grown-Child.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-base-3-color has-accent-background-color has-text-color has-background has-medium-font-size\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p>In this article, I will offer tips on how to deal with a Narcissistic grown child, and being a positive role model in relationships. <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-background\" style=\"background-color:#f8f8e5\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Strategies_to_Deal_with_a_Narcissistic_Son_or_Daughter\">10 Strategies to Deal with a Narcissistic Son or Daughter<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/10-Strategies-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Son-or-Daughter.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/10-Strategies-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Son-or-Daughter-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18176\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/10-Strategies-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Son-or-Daughter-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/10-Strategies-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Son-or-Daughter-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/10-Strategies-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Son-or-Daughter-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/10-Strategies-to-Deal-with-a-Narcissistic-Son-or-Daughter.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s say you have a narcissistic son. He treats you poorly, no matter how much you try to support and respect him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You always feel like you\u2019re walking on eggshells, and he becomes angry when you make even the slightest mistake. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What you\u2019re doing isn\u2019t working, so it\u2019s time to try a different approach. Here are some strategies to keep in mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Detach_From_His_Emotions\">#1 Detach From His Emotions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissistic emotions tend to escalate quickly, but you\u2019ll likely notice patterns of hot-and-cold behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When your son feels out of control, he will do whatever he can to maintain some of that control, which may include yelling, manipulating, or trying to get empathy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your main priority should be to remember that his emotions are his, and it\u2019s not your job to absorb them or take them on as your own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Stay_Grounded_in_Support\u00a0\u00a0\">#2 Stay Grounded in Support&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Parenting is hard, but parenting a narcissist significantly complicates the dynamic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You must avoid isolating yourself from others. Even if you feel upset, angry, or scared, connecting with other friends, family, or mental health professionals can help you feel centered. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You need to have your own outlet to express your needs and emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Don\u2019t_Tolerate_Abuse\u00a0\">#3 Don\u2019t Tolerate Abuse&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>You should never tolerate abuse in your own home. Even though you love your son, aim to convey that he needs to respect you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This will come in the form of clear boundaries about what is and isn\u2019t permissible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes this might entail walking away from the situation, not texting back right away, or asking him to leave your home.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Productively_Validate_Self-Esteem\">#4 Productively Validate Self-Esteem<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissists have incredibly fragile egos and rely on ongoing validation to feel better about themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a parent, you can focus on offering feedback and love to your child. Emphasize this praise when they engage in positive, prosocial behavior, but don\u2019t overdo it, as that could fuel their ego more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Stop_Trying_to_Challenge_His_Reality\">#5 Stop Trying to Challenge His Reality<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s tempting to want to call a narcissist out on his behavior.&nbsp;<em>Don\u2019t you see how you\u2019re manipulating me? Why are you always gaslighting every situation? You\u2019re so selfish and self-centered!&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These powerful thoughts are normal, but expressing them to a narcissist is rarely helpful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doing so often triggers another narcissistic rage cycle because narcissists can\u2019t integrate feedback well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Aim_to_Model_Healthy_Relationships\">#6 Aim to Model Healthy Relationships<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Children learn by observing their families, which is especially true in younger children. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aim to be a good role model. Be compassionate and giving toward others. Demonstrate your loyalty in relationships, and do not gossip about others. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you feel upset with someone, convey that you still respect them and want to work it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Speak_Respectfully_and_Show_Curiosity\u00a0\">#7 Speak Respectfully and Show Curiosity&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Regardless of how your child acts, you can control your reactions. At times, this will be hard, and you may want to match the emotional chaos with your yelling, threats, or passive-aggressive behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But aim to be steady and calm. Sometimes this is the best way to disarm a narcissist.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Listen_to_Him_Closely_and_Compassionately\">#8 Listen to Him Closely and Compassionately<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Practice active listening, even if your child isn\u2019t willing to do the same. Over time, this can reassure him that you are curious about his experiences and want to know him on a deeper level. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When this is consistently modeled to someone (even a narcissist), they may start taking on some of that compassion themselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember that many narcissists are walking around carrying heavy burdens of pain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They feel incredibly misunderstood, and they\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/what-happens-when-you-reject-a-narcissist\/\">terrified of rejection<\/a>. As his parent, you have more influence than you realize in showing that you care about his hardships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Demonstrate_Unconditional_Love\">#9 Demonstrate Unconditional Love<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to have a respectful relationship with your narcissistic child, conveying unconditional love is important. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do not attach love to an external accomplishment, and be mindful of only praising or giving things when they \u201cdo well.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Similarly, avoid patterns of criticism when your child acts out or makes a mistake. As much as possible, try to be even-keeled and consistent, even when it\u2019s hard.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"_Evaluate_a_No-Contact_Relationship\">#10 Evaluate a No-Contact Relationship<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Although it may be the most difficult choice, some parents must end their relationships with their narcissistic children. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It may be worth reevaluating your relationship if your child is continuously destructive and disrespectful to you (even after you\u2019ve outlined boundaries). You don\u2019t need to keep living with&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/the-6-stages-of-healing-after-narcissistic-abuse-how-to-move-on-after-the-abuse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">narcissistic abuse<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember that you don\u2019t need to make a permanent decision right now. But if you frequently feel stressed and angry- without any signs of relief- you might need to alter your current dynamics.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-background\" style=\"background-color:#eaeaea\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"How_Do_You_Live_With_a_Narcissistic_Child?\">How Do You Live With a Narcissistic Child?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Live-With-a-Narcissistic-Child.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Live-With-a-Narcissistic-Child-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18177\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Live-With-a-Narcissistic-Child-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Live-With-a-Narcissistic-Child-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Live-With-a-Narcissistic-Child-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Live-With-a-Narcissistic-Child.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Your house, your rules. We\u2019ve all heard this common cliche, but it becomes even more critical when navigating <a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/narcissistic-family-dynamics\/\">narcissistic family members<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s important first to identify your non-negotiable boundaries. When dealing with a narcissist, boundaries need to be treated as laws. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can\u2019t waver on them and must be clear and explicit about your expectations. Outline whatever consequences you will enforce should they breach a boundary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember to maintain your sense of identity. Narcissists often view loved ones as mere extensions of themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They naturally look down on anyone who thinks and acts differently from them. Holding onto your other relationships, interests, and desires would be best. You are your own person and are allowed to look after your needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, it can be helpful to seek your own professional therapy. <a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/narcissists-in-the-family\/\">Narcissistic patterns can run in families<\/a>, and you may have contributed to certain behaviors unknowingly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This doesn\u2019t make you a bad person, but working on yourself can improve your relationship with your child. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You may have an even greater influence if your child is young and impressionable- they absorb how you treat them, and if you have your own narcissistic or codependent symptoms, treating those can have an intergenerational impact.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-background\" style=\"background-color:#fbf9eb\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-left\" id=\"FAQ\">FAQ<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Tell-Your-Child-Is-a-Narcissist.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Tell-Your-Child-Is-a-Narcissist-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18178\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Tell-Your-Child-Is-a-Narcissist-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Tell-Your-Child-Is-a-Narcissist-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Tell-Your-Child-Is-a-Narcissist-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/How-Do-You-Tell-Your-Child-Is-a-Narcissist.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"How_Do_You_Tell_Your_Child_Is_a_Narcissist?\">How Do You Tell Your Child Is a Narcissist?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissism is not like having <a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/narcissism-or-big-ego-how-to-tell-the-difference\/\">high self-esteem<\/a> or even displaying grandiose behaviors. True narcissism entails patterns of entitlement, disregard for others, and&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/narcissism-and-empathy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">limited or no empathy<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being aware of a child\u2019s age and growth is essential. For example, it\u2019s developmentally appropriate for young children and teenagers to be self-centered. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But they should still show levels of affection and compassion to others. They should also value&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/narcissistic-friendship-can-narcissists-be-good-friends\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">making friends<\/a>&nbsp;and making a good impression in society.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"How_Does_a_Narcissistic_Child_Behave?\">How Does a Narcissistic Child Behave?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissistic children may be more likely to bully people and blame others when they make a mistake. They also tend to struggle with emotional regulation or distress tolerance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When they encounter a difficult situation, narcissistic children may \u2018act out\u2019 or throw tantrums that feel much younger than their biological age. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They also struggle to accept any form of accountability, believing their needs trump everyone else\u2019s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissistic children may have entirely impractical ideas about their future (i.e., they only want to be celebrities or famous athletes). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They often assume they\u2019re entitled to anything they want and may be extremely jealous of other people\u2019s accomplishments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many narcissistic children have other co-occurring <a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/sons-narcissistic-mother\/\">mental health symptoms<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, they may have depression, anxiety, substance use issues, self-harm problems, eating disorders, or other personality disorder symptoms. Narcissism tends to intensify those symptoms, which can also exacerbate narcissism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"How_Do_Narcissistic_Sons_and_Daughters_Treat_Their_Mothers?\">How Do Narcissistic Sons and Daughters Treat Their Mothers?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It depends. In general, narcissists tend to come across as cold and detached. They may only show love when it meets their own needs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They will often<a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/how-to-react-to-narcissist-triangulation-explained-with-real-life-examples\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&nbsp;triangulate other family members&nbsp;<\/a>when it\u2019s convenient, especially when they get upset. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some narcissists will treat their mothers wonderfully in the public eye to make a good impression on others.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s also common for&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/thenarcissisticlife.com\/do-narcissists-know-they-are-narcissists\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">self-aware narcissists<\/a>&nbsp;to blame their parents for their mental health issues. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They will often glorify past traumas and make it seem like they had the worst childhood. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if there\u2019s any grain of truth to their story, they\u2019re quick to exaggerate details and sidestep, taking any ownership over their part in the problem.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"How_Do_I_Stop_My_Child_From_Becoming_a_Narcissist?\">How Do I Stop My Child From Becoming a Narcissist?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s unlikely that anyone can entirely prevent a mental illness from occurring, but parents can take some protective steps to help their child build healthy, stable self-esteem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, even though you deem your child special, don\u2019t praise them in a way that puts down other people or insinuates that they are inherently superior. Prioritize generosity and altruism, and demonstrate these things yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many narcissists have histories of emotional neglect- with that, tell your child you love them and show up for them consistently and kindly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aim to accept them for who they are, even if you don\u2019t agree with everything they do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, hold them accountable to rules and order, and enforce boundaries. Children need to know the world has limits and that they are expected to follow them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You feel at your absolute breaking point dealing with your narcissistic adult child. You\u2019re not respected. You feel like, no matter what you do, it\u2019s wrong. You\u2019re tired of all the&nbsp;gaslighting and manipulation, but you keep asking yourself,&nbsp;Did I do something wrong? Did I cause this? 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