How Does it End For Narcissists?
Narcissists are like a really painful, long book that you have to read in order to understand. They don’t come with an index or bullet points. If they did, half their toxicity would fall through the cracks.
Sadly, for people like you or me, we have to experience them fully before we know each trick.
If I can offer you one fragment of light at the end of this treacherous tunnel – it’s this:
What happens to narcissists is an ending that you’re going to want to hang on for.
Let’s get into it.
“Look At Them!”
It’s enough to make you sick, isn’t it?
They live their merry little lives, seemingly getting away with anything and everything, making you want to scream from the rooftops.
Yes – it’s unfair.
You wish they would just crumble and fall down, so you could finally see them suffer as much as they made you suffer.
You want what happens to them, to be detrimental to everything they pretend to be.
Does The Tide Ever Turn?
What do you think? I mean, I want to be able to tell you that they do indeed turn honestly. I also know and appreciate how it really doesn’t feel that way at the time. Constantly waiting for them to taste their own medicine can feel like waiting for rain in a drought.
But I am here to say that, yes, eventually, that rain will come.
And it will feel amazing.
The Beauty of Karma
I don’t like to meddle with Karma. Instead, I trust that everything will work exactly how it should.
Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose. The circle of life appreciates both good and bad happenings, and I am certain that includes narcissists and how they treat others.
Karma doesn’t need you stepping in and taking over, so if you ever try to gain justice from a situation involving a narcissist, you’re likely to lose.
Rather than that – it’s nothing but a waiting game.
But a game you’ll definitely not want to quit.
How Does It End For Them?
No narcissist has a really happy ending.
Ultimately, they go home alone every day, even if they go home to somebody.
Narcissists always want to be part of something, yet never feel part of anything. It’s all empty. It’s all meaningless. They don’t have layers to them or an ounce of appreciation for their family or friends.
That alone should tell you how it ends for every narcissist.
They’re nothing but lonely people craving some kind of something.
That is something they never end up getting.
#1 The Slipping of the Mask
You may have to wait a while, but the mask of a narcissist will always, I repeat, always slip off. I know you think it can’t happen soon enough, and there will be many of you screaming for it to be today – but it doesn’t work that way.
In fact, the more you try and rush the slipping of the mask, the crazier you will look. If you want to truly allow their true self to unfold naturally, you’ll have to wait for the day.
#2 Inability to Keep Up With Their Lies
We all know that lying can lead to serious trouble. Not only do you have to remember this, but you may also have to build potential lies around it so they make sense.
Narcissists are great at lying, but they can do it so frequently that they fail to recall them all. When you see a narcissist caught in a lie trap, they will fluff and fumble their way out as best they can with the charm they were born with.
I want to remind you, though – the lies do catch up with them eventually.
Lies catch up with everybody.
#3 One Small Mistake
This is all it takes, believe me. One tiny little slip up to get people talking is all it takes.
I once knew a narcissist professionally who never took any accountability for his mistakes. He used to cover up all his mistakes, blaming others or deleting evidence that he was responsible.
One day, he was caught in the act. He had no defense, and even though he got really angry and tried to blame somebody else, it was clear he was to blame.
His mistake was leaving his work pass in the room where he shredded all the information he wanted to discard.
It’s all it took for the dominos to all fall down, and for the past to come together like a jigsaw puzzle. People saw what he was like, and nobody trusted him again.
#4 Time Will Tell
You’re all familiar with the saying, ‘Time will heal.’ It helps if you are going through hard times or have lost somebody close to you.
Time also heals your own heart as it allows narcissists to be revealed for who they really are. As much as it will cause chaos, it will be healing to be validated by the entire event.
It’s how so many victims breathe a sigh of relief and say, “Thank goodness everybody can now see them for who they truly are.”
Time will give you that. You just have to wait for it.
#5 They Won’t Hesitate in Moving!
Narcissists are renowned for moving.
To start again, if things get too heated where they live,
Looking for work in a new city or town for a ‘fresh start.’
Usually, when they run everybody else down or play them all in their games, they run out of people.
They run out of supply.
So what do they do?
They run away.
It won’t end there, though. Moving anywhere new only starts the whole process up all over again. Narcissists, for that reason, never really admit to having somewhere to call home.
#6 New Friends
And of course, moving anywhere means starting up a new friendship circle. They will mingle and meet with everybody, as all new people are considered to be fresh pawns in their game.
Friends end up being enemies before long…
In The End
You can wait and wait, but eventually the narcissist will get their comeuppance. In one way or another, whether it be being found out, having their mask slip, or having to keep bouncing from town to city to stay relevant or liked.
I want you to allow that to be the justice you need from it, because it is.
Narcissists will always be miserable. They hate the idea of being stuck or figured out. They must constantly work out their plan to keep their true selves a secret.
Isn’t that the end you want to hear about?
I know it is for me.
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