Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

5 Ways How Narcissists Destroy Your Dreams

5 Ways How Narcissists Destroy Your Dreams

Narcissists hate seeing others fly. If they get wind of a fraction of your dream,…

4 Things You Can Learn From Narcissists and Eye Contact

4 Things You Can Learn From Narcissists and Eye Contact

Narcissistic parents talking to their kids. Narcissistic partners talking to their spouses. Narcissistic bosses talking…

How to Stop Ruminating About Your Narcissist Ex?

How to Stop Ruminating About Your Narcissist Ex?

It’s 2am. You’re thinking about your narcissistic ex. You’ve so far not had a wink…

Why You Should Never Call Narcissists Out

Why You Should Never Call Narcissists Out

I see it all the time… “Please help me call the narcissist in my life…

6 Alternatives to Calling Out the Narcissist

6 Alternatives to Calling Out the Narcissist

Calling out a narcissist is pointless. In fact, if I could give you negative points…

Can You be Immune to Narcissists?

Can You be Immune to Narcissists?

In a world where more and more people are being affected by narcissists, it’s hard…

3 Ways to Deal with Covert Narcissists

3 Ways to Deal with Covert Narcissists

Covert narcissism is fairly recent when it comes to our understanding of narcissism in general.…

The Most Cruel Things Narcissists Do

The Most Cruel Things Narcissists Do

I don’t need to remind you that narcissists are some of the cruelest people on…

What do Narcissists do With Truth Tellers?

What do Narcissists do With Truth Tellers?

In every single family, there is always a child who gets it. The child who…

How to Point out Narcissists to Other People

How to Point out Narcissists to Other People

One of the things I like to know I’m offering to you, are the important…

6 Signs You Are Dealing With a Covert Narcissist

6 Signs You Are Dealing With a Covert Narcissist

Covert narcissists are the most sneaky of them all. It isn’t enough that they carry…

10 Ways to Become Resistant to Narcissists

10 Ways to Become Resistant to Narcissists

Wouldn’t it be magical to believe in a place where narcissists don’t get under our…

Narcissists Can’t Stand it When You Do This

Narcissists Can’t Stand it When You Do This

We’re constantly told… Never get on the wrong side of a narcissist. Why? Because it…

Narcissists Always Say These 6 Things

Narcissists Always Say These 6 Things

Narcissists like to think they’re unpredictable. They want you to wonder what will happen next…

6 Tactics That Help Not Letting Narcissists in Your Life

6 Tactics That Help Not Letting Narcissists in Your Life

Hindsight is a wonderful thing, and it would be great if we could refuse to…

5 Ways Narcissists Are Toxic With Money

5 Ways Narcissists Are Toxic With Money

To the narcissist – money is power. Power is also abuse. They hold it over…

5 Things That Going No Contact Means

5 Things That Going No Contact Means

Okay, I want you to think about a person in your life right now, who…

Can Being with a Narcissist Turn You into One?

Can Being with a Narcissist Turn You into One?

Being with a narcissist is no walk in the park. What started out seeming like…

What Happens When you Abandon the Narcissist?

What Happens When you Abandon the Narcissist?

Idealization. De-valuation. Discarding. Hoovering. Once the narcissist has you, they start to display a disinterest…

Don’t Fight or Argue With a Narcissist; Do This Instead!

Don’t Fight or Argue With a Narcissist; Do This Instead!

Handing a narcissist a Q-Tip to clean their ears out so they can hear you…

Did You Know This is Gaslighting?

Did You Know This is Gaslighting?

Have you ever had your reality denied? You’re being too sensitive. You’ve no right to…

The Insults You Hear in a Narcissistic Relationship

The Insults You Hear in a Narcissistic Relationship

Many people don’t even know what a healthy relationship looks like. Hearing an insult to…

How Are Narcissists Made?

How Are Narcissists Made?

First thing’s first – no answer will ever justify the narcissist’s behavior, however, it is…

What To Do When a Narcissist Turns People Against You?

What To Do When a Narcissist Turns People Against You?

Have you ever seen a flying monkey? Of course not – they don’t exist, right?…