Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

Why Narcissists Start Arguments for No Reason at All

Why Narcissists Start Arguments for No Reason at All

It’s typical of a narcissist to want to keep drama alive in their relationships. You…

The Creepy Things Narcissists Do When They’re Bored With You

The Creepy Things Narcissists Do When They’re Bored With You

Narcissists are creepy all the time, but they can take their creepiness to another level…

The One Thing Narcissists Do So You Will Never Get Closure

The One Thing Narcissists Do So You Will Never Get Closure

The cruel nature of a narcissist can only really be seen fully the moment they…

The Stuff You Don’t See in Public: 12 Disturbing Things Narcissist Parents Do

The Stuff You Don’t See in Public: 12 Disturbing Things Narcissist Parents Do

When the doors are closed, you assume you’re going to be safe in your own…

13 Reasons Trusting The Narcissist Always Ends Badly

13 Reasons Trusting The Narcissist Always Ends Badly

I am standing in front of you with a huge red flag. I am waving…

What The Narcissist Never Recovers From After Losing You

What The Narcissist Never Recovers From After Losing You

Boo-hoo for the narcissist. You left them. Does anybody want to pass them a tissue…

The Narcissist’s Most Toxic Habit Is The One Nobody Talks About

The Narcissist’s Most Toxic Habit Is The One Nobody Talks About

When presented with  the character of a narcissist, I could safely reel off a long…

Why You Should Never Fully Trust The Narcissist’s Family

Why You Should Never Fully Trust The Narcissist’s Family

Trusting the family of a narcissist can seem like a pretty normal thing to do.…

10 Ways The Narcissist Rewrites The Story To Make You The Villain

10 Ways The Narcissist Rewrites The Story To Make You The Villain

We all know how toxic narcissists behave. By now, you are becoming experts in how…

8 Ways The Narcissist Acts Like They’re Helping You

8 Ways The Narcissist Acts Like They’re Helping You

If a narcissist isn’t putting on a show, then what are they even doing? They…

Why The Narcissist Saw You As The Perfect Target

Why The Narcissist Saw You As The Perfect Target

When a narcissist has a target in mind, that target usually comes with a set…

How To Win Without Becoming Like The Narcissist

How To Win Without Becoming Like The Narcissist

Every narcissist thrives on wanting to be seen, heard, and respected. They command your attention,…

10 Ways The Narcissist Expects Different Rules For Themselves

10 Ways The Narcissist Expects Different Rules For Themselves

Do as I say, not as I do. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it? Narcissists want you…

8 Things To Tell Yourself When You Want To Go Back To The Narcissist

8 Things To Tell Yourself When You Want To Go Back To The Narcissist

Sometimes, we all need to tell ourselves some truths. If we haven’t got a good…

9 Honest Questions To Ask If You Think You’re The Narcissist

9 Honest Questions To Ask If You Think You’re The Narcissist

I know it can be frightening to deal with a narcissist. If you are particularly…

12 Reasons Why The Narcissist Will Never Become The Person You Need

12 Reasons Why The Narcissist Will Never Become The Person You Need

I know you wake up every morning thinking, “Will this be the day? Will today…

9 Reasons The Narcissist Would Rather Impress A Stranger Than Care For You

9 Reasons The Narcissist Would Rather Impress A Stranger Than Care For You

Narcissists love a stranger. It gives them a huge sense of provide and excitement to…

8 Ways A Narcissistic Mother Turns Her Family Against Each Other

8 Ways A Narcissistic Mother Turns Her Family Against Each Other

I feel sorry for anybody who is born to narcissistic parents. There is a heavy…

The Real Reasons The Narcissist Hates You, Even When You’ve Done Nothing Wrong

The Real Reasons The Narcissist Hates You, Even When You’ve Done Nothing Wrong

When you meet a narcissist, the last thing that will cross your mind is that…

5 Ways Narcissistic Abuse Rewires Your Brain Chemistry

5 Ways Narcissistic Abuse Rewires Your Brain Chemistry

Hormones are a fundamental part of our make-up, no matter who we are. The constant…

The 10 Unspoken Rules Every Child Of The Narcissist Knows

The 10 Unspoken Rules Every Child Of The Narcissist Knows

When it comes to being the child of a narcissist, some rules are yelled out…

12 Moments That Prove The Narcissistic Abuse Was Intentional

12 Moments That Prove The Narcissistic Abuse Was Intentional

There will have been times in the past where victims of narcissistic abuse make excuses…

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Hate Valentines Day

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Hate Valentines Day

I know in your heart, you will love the kind of day that celebrates love…

Valentine’s Day With Narcissists Highlights Everything That’s Missing in Your Relationship

Valentine’s Day With Narcissists Highlights Everything That’s Missing in Your Relationship

When Valentine’s Day rolls around, it’s natural to want to spend it romantically floating in…