Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

11 Everyday Simple Boundaries That Drive Narcissists Crazy

11 Everyday Simple Boundaries That Drive Narcissists Crazy

When you want to gain control over a narcissist, the one thing that will carry…

Stop Doing This One Simple Thing and Narcissists Will Walk Away

Stop Doing This One Simple Thing and Narcissists Will Walk Away

Narcissists are attracted to certain people like bees to honey, and it can feel so…

Want a Narcissist to Leave You Alone? Quit Giving Them This

Want a Narcissist to Leave You Alone? Quit Giving Them This

Do you ever get that feeling where you want to yell at a narcissist, “Just…

The Truth About What Happens to Narcissists as They Get Older

The Truth About What Happens to Narcissists as They Get Older

When a narcissist is young, they have that youth plus energy on their side. They…

The Shocking Truth About What Really Happens to Narcissists in the End

The Shocking Truth About What Really Happens to Narcissists in the End

I like to think of narcissists as ticking time bombs. It’s only a matter of…

12 Stupid Reasons Narcissists Always Start Drama Before Big Events

12 Stupid Reasons Narcissists Always Start Drama Before Big Events

You’ve got a big event coming up, and it’s been building for weeks, maybe even…

8 Reasons Why Narcissists Can’t Let You Enjoy a Peaceful Night Out

8 Reasons Why Narcissists Can’t Let You Enjoy a Peaceful Night Out

For those of you who have to live or spend a lot of time with…

13 Heartbreaking Things Narcissists Do to Their Children

13 Heartbreaking Things Narcissists Do to Their Children

Yes, even narcissists can have kids. It’s the sad reality we live in, and I…

12 Disturbing Things Narcissist Parents Do Behind Closed Doors

12 Disturbing Things Narcissist Parents Do Behind Closed Doors

When the doors are closed, you assume you’re going to be safe in your own…

10 Ways To Really Hurt a Narcissist

10 Ways To Really Hurt a Narcissist

Narcissists are the most hurtful people on the planet. They cause pain and suffering, and…

7 Ways To Hurt The Narcissist’s Ego So Bad They’ll Never Forget It

7 Ways To Hurt The Narcissist’s Ego So Bad They’ll Never Forget It

They say never mess with the ego of the narcissist or you will end up…

9 Ways to Humble a Narcissist Without Saying a Single Thing

9 Ways to Humble a Narcissist Without Saying a Single Thing

Wouldn’t we all love to remind a narcissist that they are nowhere near as special…

The Strange Hobbies Narcissists Enjoy When No One’s Watching

The Strange Hobbies Narcissists Enjoy When No One’s Watching

Are you looking? I mean, are you really looking? It’s funny really. When you look…

8 Creepy Hobbies Narcissists Don’t Want You to Know About

8 Creepy Hobbies Narcissists Don’t Want You to Know About

You don’t need me to tell you how creepy narcissists are. Without even knowing their…

9 Physical Signs a Narcissist Is Lying

9 Physical Signs a Narcissist Is Lying

We are all physical people. I can always tell when there’s something wrong with the…

This Is The Hidden Cost of Loving a Narcissist 

This Is The Hidden Cost of Loving a Narcissist 

Love is a powerful thing, and trust me, I know from speaking to so many…

Do This to a Narcissist — And They’ll Crumble Instantly

Do This to a Narcissist — And They’ll Crumble Instantly

Have you ever shown a narcissist a side of you that they fear?  I doubt…

10 Priceless Things Narcissists Steal From You (And Never Give Back)

10 Priceless Things Narcissists Steal From You (And Never Give Back)

Although narcissists are obsessed with the price tag of everything, what isn’t talked about enough…

9 Things Narcissists Steal From You That Money Can’t Replace

9 Things Narcissists Steal From You That Money Can’t Replace

Money is everything to a narcissist, and when they steal, they take without conscience or…

The 9 Things Narcissists Can’t Handle (No Matter What They Say)

The 9 Things Narcissists Can’t Handle (No Matter What They Say)

When a narcissist presents themselves to the world, they present a version that is covered…

9 Ways How Narcissistic Parents Quietly Destroy Their Children’s Self-Worth

9 Ways How Narcissistic Parents Quietly Destroy Their Children’s Self-Worth

There was probably a time in your life where you were at your most authentic.…

9 Disturbing Ways Narcissists Force Their Children To Compete For Love

9 Disturbing Ways Narcissists Force Their Children To Compete For Love

Having a narcissistic parent doesn’t just mean having to deal with their inconsistent moods from…

The Lifelong Wounds Every Child of a Narcissist Carries in Silence

The Lifelong Wounds Every Child of a Narcissist Carries in Silence

Nobody asks to have a narcissist as a parent. We’re all born, and it really…

11 Ways How Narcissists Turn Your Happiest Moments into Nightmares

11 Ways How Narcissists Turn Your Happiest Moments into Nightmares

In this world, we want to take whatever happiness we can get, right? Those moments…