Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

Narcissists Never Recover From These Things After You Leave

Narcissists Never Recover From These Things After You Leave

Boo-hoo for the narcissist. You left them. Does anybody want to pass them a tissue…

The Narcissist’s Most Destructive Habit Isn’t What You Think

The Narcissist’s Most Destructive Habit Isn’t What You Think

When presented with  the character of a narcissist, I could safely reel off a long…

9 Reasons You Should Never Trust The Family Of The Narcissist

9 Reasons You Should Never Trust The Family Of The Narcissist

Trusting the family of a narcissist can seem like a pretty normal thing to do.…

10 Ways Narcissists Make You the Villain for Their Own Behavior

10 Ways Narcissists Make You the Villain for Their Own Behavior

We all know how toxic narcissists behave. By now, you are becoming experts in how…

8 Ways Narcissists Pretend To Help You

8 Ways Narcissists Pretend To Help You

If a narcissist isn’t putting on a show, then what are they even doing? They…

Why Did The Narcissist Pick You?

Why Did The Narcissist Pick You?

When a narcissist has a target in mind, that target usually comes with a set…

How To Play The Narcissist Better Than They Play You

How To Play The Narcissist Better Than They Play You

Every narcissist thrives on wanting to be seen, heard, and respected. They command your attention,…

10 Double Standards Narcissists Have

10 Double Standards Narcissists Have

Do as I say, not as I do. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it? Narcissists want you…

8 Things To Repeat When You Want To Go Back To The Narcissist

8 Things To Repeat When You Want To Go Back To The Narcissist

Sometimes, we all need to tell ourselves some truths. If we haven’t got a good…

9 Questions You Should Ask Yourself If You’re Afraid You’re The Narcissist

9 Questions You Should Ask Yourself If You’re Afraid You’re The Narcissist

I know it can be frightening to deal with a narcissist. If you are particularly…

12 Reasons The Narcissist Will Never Change

12 Reasons The Narcissist Will Never Change

I know you wake up every morning thinking, “Will this be the day? Will today…

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Would Rather Impress a Stranger Than Take Care of You

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Would Rather Impress a Stranger Than Take Care of You

Narcissists love a stranger. It gives them a huge sense of provide and excitement to…

8 Ways a Narcissistic Mother Slowly Breaks Her Family Apart

8 Ways a Narcissistic Mother Slowly Breaks Her Family Apart

I feel sorry for anybody who is born to narcissistic parents. There is a heavy…

11 Reasons Why The Narcissist Hates You For No Reason

11 Reasons Why The Narcissist Hates You For No Reason

When you meet a narcissist, the last thing that will cross your mind is that…

5 Hormones Narcissistic Abuse Triggers That Harms Your Brain

5 Hormones Narcissistic Abuse Triggers That Harms Your Brain

Hormones are a fundamental part of our make-up, no matter who we are. The constant…

10 Unspoken Rules Children of Narcissists Have To Live By

10 Unspoken Rules Children of Narcissists Have To Live By

When it comes to being the child of a narcissist, some rules are yelled out…

12 Moments That Show The Narcissistic Abuse Was Intentional

12 Moments That Show The Narcissistic Abuse Was Intentional

There will have been times in the past where victims of narcissistic abuse make excuses…

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Hate Valentines Day

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Hate Valentines Day

I know in your heart, you will love the kind of day that celebrates love…

Valentine’s Day With Narcissists Highlights Everything That’s Missing in Your Relationship

Valentine’s Day With Narcissists Highlights Everything That’s Missing in Your Relationship

When Valentine’s Day rolls around, it’s natural to want to spend it romantically floating in…

What Happens After a Narcissist Can’t Manipulate You Anymore

What Happens After a Narcissist Can’t Manipulate You Anymore

If you are at a point where a narcissist is unable to manipulate you any…

10 Things Narcissists Do When They Realize They’ve Lost You 

10 Things Narcissists Do When They Realize They’ve Lost You 

A narcissist is happy all the while they know they’ve got you. They want to…

What Happens When a Narcissist Marries You Too Fast?

What Happens When a Narcissist Marries You Too Fast?

When a narcissist meets you and you tick all their boxes, they will not want…

This Is Why Narcissists Can’t Wait to Marry You

This Is Why Narcissists Can’t Wait to Marry You

They see you, they like you, they want you, they get you. To make it…

If You’re With a Narcissist, Your Phone Isn’t Private

If You’re With a Narcissist, Your Phone Isn’t Private

I could write about the drawbacks of being with a narcissist all day, but let’s…