Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

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Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

I use (a lot of) Science and Experience to write my articles. They are meant to help you navigate and find answers to sometimes difficult questions. I love to write about a variety of topics. If you want to read more about me, please read my personal profile.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

Narcissists Must Make You Miserable for This 1 Weird Reason

Narcissists Must Make You Miserable for This 1 Weird Reason

It’s like narcissists were handed instructions the moment they were born. Please make sure you…

The Real Difference between a ‘Narcissist’ and Narcissistic Personality Disorder

The Real Difference between a ‘Narcissist’ and Narcissistic Personality Disorder

This is not a case of splitting hairs. There are no slight differences between having…

How Do You Know If A Narcissist Is Gone For Good

How Do You Know If A Narcissist Is Gone For Good?

Wait… Did you check everywhere? And they’ve really gone this time? But how do you…

Devastating Mistakes I Made When Divorcing a Narcissist

Devastating Mistakes I Made When Divorcing a Narcissist

Well, this is new for you! I’ve been allowed to take over The Narcissistic Life…

What to Do When The Narcissist Spreads Lies About You

What to Do When The Narcissist Spreads Lies About You

First of all … sit down. Take a breath. The lies are coming thick and…

8 Reasons Narcissists Can’t See Their Abusive Acts as Evil

8 Reasons Narcissists Can’t See Their Abusive Acts as Evil

No narcissist is ever going to admit that they’re a narcissist. Their acts are truly…

This is What You Tell People Who Don’t Believe You Were Abused By a Narcissist

This is What You Tell People Who Don’t Believe You Were Abused By a Narcissist

Please, won’t somebody just listen to me? Please believe me. I’m telling the truth! They’re…

15 Things That Are Emotionally Abusive 15 Things That Are Emotionally Abusive

15 Things That Are Emotionally Abusive

I want you all to stop what you ‘re doing and take notice of what’s…

12 Ways To Unsettle Narcissists

12 Ways To Unsettle Narcissists

Narcissists love what you give them as they’re inflicting pain and suffering onto you. The…

10 Ways Female Narcissists Abuse Their Male Partners

10 Ways Female Narcissists Abuse Their Male Partners

Men aren’t the only ones we need to point the finger of blame on when…

9 Awkward Reasons Why Narcissists Enjoy Dating Other Narcissists

9 Awkward Reasons Why Narcissists Enjoy Dating Other Narcissists

If you think two narcissists are going to cause maximum destruction together, you’d be right.…

10 Reasons Why Narcissists Thrive When You Suffer

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Thrive When You Suffer

Narcissists are known for their pleasure in seeing your world turned upside down. It’s no…

This is how Narcissists choose their victims

This is how Narcissists choose their victims

Hello, chosen one. It is my understanding that your confusion as to why the narcissist…

Mirror Mirror On The Wall, What is the most dangerous narcissist of them all?

Mirror Mirror On The Wall, What is the most dangerous narcissist of them all?

If I could turn on the sirens and flashing red lights, this would be the…

10 Things Narcissists Steal From You

10 Things Narcissists Steal From You

I’m not kidding when I tell you that narcissists are master thieves.  However, they won’t…

7 Ways Men Experience the Wrath of The Female Narcissist

7 Ways Men Experience the Wrath of The Female Narcissist

Never let it be said that females don’t have just as much capacity and potential…

Mind Tricks That Will Give YOU Domination over the Narcissist

Mind Tricks That Will Give YOU Domination over the Narcissist

Everybody wants one day where they win against the narcissist, don’t they? You want to…

Stop Falling For The “Come Back” Secret Trick of the Narcissist

Stop Falling For The “Come Back” Secret Trick of the Narcissist

The familiar and luring pull of the narcissist who has recently stamped all over your…

Give a Narcissist a Healthy Relationship and WATCH THEM STRUGGLE

Give a Narcissist a Healthy Relationship and WATCH THEM STRUGGLE

Would you eat nothing but junk food? It’d make you feel quite unwell after a…

12 Things Narcissists Will NEVER Lie About

12 Things Narcissists Will NEVER Lie About

Narcissists lie.  A lot.  But you know what? Sometimes they thrive on telling the truth…

How To Get a Narcissist to Truly Understand You

How To Get a Narcissist to Truly Understand You

Please hear me. I need you to understand me. Can’t you see what I’m trying…

Avoid These Temptations With The Narcissist

Avoid These Temptations With The Narcissist

Ah, the fruit of temptation falls at your feet, and you want to pick it…

Why Silence is Golden When It Comes To Beating The Narcissist

Why Silence is Golden When It Comes To Beating The Narcissist

Silence is power – yet we are led to believe we need to always speak…

Why Do Narcissists Like To See You Sad?

Why Do Narcissists Like To See You Sad?

What part of you gets a kick out of making somebody else unhappy? If you…