Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

Things Narcissists Will Never Tell You About Their Fears

Things Narcissists Will Never Tell You About Their Fears

If asked you right now what your fears were, what would you say to me?…

Things Narcissists Will Never Admit About Their Failures

Things Narcissists Will Never Admit About Their Failures

The word failure is in every dictionary – even the narcissists. They don’t like that…

11 Things Narcissists Do To Keep You Financially Dependent

11 Things Narcissists Do To Keep You Financially Dependent

Have you ever been scared of money? I don’t mean you’d jump out of your…

What Narcissists Will Never Admit About Their Past

What Narcissists Will Never Admit About Their Past

I love talking about a narcissist’s past, because I can almost hear the panicked gasps…

14 Smart Tactics To Beat A Narcissist At Their Own Game

14 Smart Tactics To Beat A Narcissist At Their Own Game

I’ll be honest, nobody with half a conscience wants to sign up for any game…

20 Affirmations For Narcissistic Abuse Survivors

20 Affirmations For Narcissistic Abuse Survivors

Affirmations are positive statements that help people deal or cope with negative thoughts or feelings.…

NEVER Let A Narcissist Know These Things About Your Childhood

NEVER Let A Narcissist Know These Things About Your Childhood

Childhoods can be coated in pain and trauma that refuses to leave or even crack…

7 Bizarre Ways Narcissists Act Around Pregnant Women

7 Bizarre Ways Narcissists Act Around Pregnant Women

What to expect when you’re expecting! Can I add that what not to expect is a narcissist…

WARNING: 6 Ways Narcissists Use Your Medical Information

WARNING: 6 Ways Narcissists Use Your Medical Information

Your medical information is your business. You have a history comprising you, your experiences, any…

10 Dangerous Mistakes People Make When Leaving A Narcissist

10 Dangerous Mistakes People Make When Leaving A Narcissist

Before you roll out the red carpet and sashay your way into a new chapter…

14 Toxic Ways Narcissists React To Your Weight Changes

14 Toxic Ways Narcissists React To Your Weight Changes

Weight is now an issue that most people are brutally aware of. Whether you feel…

8 Disturbing Truths About What Narcissists Tell Their Friends About You

8 Disturbing Truths About What Narcissists Tell Their Friends About You

Okay, let’s take a moment before I go into this topic. I know what you’re…

13 Red Flag Behaviors When Narcissists Meet Your Friends

13 Red Flag Behaviors When Narcissists Meet Your Friends

The joyous occasion of when somebody you care about meets your friends for the first…

13 Weird Things Narcs Do When They’re Jealous

13 Weird Things Narcs Do When They’re Jealous

How many times have you seen a jealous narcissist live in action? Let me tell…

11 Things Narcissists Do When They’re Home Alone

11 Things Narcissists Do When They’re Home Alone

If you think the narcissist is running around the house and setting up booby traps…

8 Things Narcissists Say About Their Ex-Partners

8 Things Narcissists Say About Their Ex-Partners

Hearing somebody talk about you will make you stop in your tracks. What are they…

10 Ways Narcissists Try To Ruin Your New Relationship

10 Ways Narcissists Try To Ruin Your New Relationship

Wouldn’t it be nice if there were no ways? I hate that you’re finally happy…

How Narcissists Act When They Need A Favor

How Narcissists Act When They Need A Favor

You have never heard such a whiny, creepy, sickly sweet tone of anybody until you’ve…

10 Things Narcissists Do On Social Media That Expose Them

10 Things Narcissists Do On Social Media That Expose Them

Social media is a narcissist’s dream. I’m not kidding. If you know what to look…

Why Do Narcissists Hate Your Hobbies?

Why Do Narcissists Hate Your Hobbies?

Narcissists hate everything – just to be clear. Underneath their lies, there’s nothing they find…

12 Secret Ways Narcissists Check If You’re Still Under Their Control

12 Secret Ways Narcissists Check If You’re Still Under Their Control

This is a strong case of when innocent people are put to the test. “What…

10 Things Narcissists Do When They Meet Your Family

10 Things Narcissists Do When They Meet Your Family

Big day for you, huh? You’ve met the person of your dreams, and the time…

What Narcissists Tell Their New Partners About You

What Narcissists Tell Their New Partners About You

Well well, look who just rocked up with a new partner? Your narcissistic ex! Before…

Hidden Ways Narcissists Control Your Social Media Life

Hidden Ways Narcissists Control Your Social Media Life

Social media is fun, right? I mean, we all have some kind of connection to…