Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

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Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

I use (a lot of) Science and Experience to write my articles. They are meant to help you navigate and find answers to sometimes difficult questions. I love to write about a variety of topics. If you want to read more about me, please read my personal profile.

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narcissist discard

The Narcissist Discard Phase: 3 Signs a Final Discard is Coming

What are the signs of the Narcissist’s final Discard? The Narcissist discard phase is often…

what happens when you ignore a narcissist who dumped you

What happens When You Ignore a Narcissist Who Dumped You?

What happens when you ignore a narcissist who dumped you? Let’s start with why you…

what happens when the narcisssit knows you have figured them out?

What Happens When The Narcissist Knows You Have Figured Them Out?

if there is one thing a narcissist will not do willingly, is accept defeat. When…

How To Know If A Narcissist Is Finished With You

How To Know If A Narcissist Is Finished With You?

How to know the narcissist is finished with you? Let’s explore how Narcissists look at…

Can a Narcissist Fall in Love? Will a Narcissist Ever Find True Love?

Can a Narcissist Fall in Love? Will a Narcissist Ever Find True Love?

Can a narcissist feel love? Yes, they can, but because they don’t like feeling vulnerable

Do Narcissists Know They Are Narcissists?

Do Narcissists Know They Are Narcissists?

Is this a common trait among narcissists? Do narcissists know they are narcissists? Let’s explore…

the narcissist silent treatment

The Painful Narcissist Silent Treatment is a Form of Abuse

Narcissists have a completely different playbook though. They go silent, sometimes with no end in…

how to deal with a narcissistic mother_

How to Deal With a Narcissistic Mother Without Losing Your Sanity?

In many cases, a narcissistic mother is an abusive mom. And a narcissistic mother is…

7 Traits of your narcissistic mother in law

Recognize The Signs of a Narcissistic Mother in Law!

But if things are particularly bad, there may be something wrong. You might be starting…

different types of Narcissism

Understanding and Handling the 4 Types of Narcissism

It can be difficult to identify who has a narcissistic trait and who suffers from…

5 Reasons Why a Narcissist Wants You Back

5 Reasons Why a Narcissist Wants You Back

A narcissist will never understand why you chose to leave and will have many reasons…

narcissist when they are sick

How Does a Narcissist Act When They Are Sick?

The trouble is if the sick person is a narcissist, then what would normally be…

the burden of the narcissistic enabler

Walk a Mile in My Shoes- The Burden of the Narcissistic Enabler

An enabler or facilitator is someone, who is either knowingly or in ignorance, allows a…

Signs Your Sibling is a Narcissist

10 Signs You Have A Narcissistic Sibling

I have written lots on what it is like to be a child, lover or…

become a narcissist later in life

Can Someone Become a Narcissist Later in Life?

The other day I was asked a question by a friend of mine about the…

is the narcissist ashamed for sex_

Trangressive Sex And Shame And The Narcissist

One of the keynotes of narcissism is the part shame plays in the narcissists psychology.…

do narcissists cry

Do Narcissists Cry?

Whilst narcissism is often characterised by bombast and a seemingly unwavering self-belief, there are times…

characteristics lucifer morningstar

Characteristics of Lucifer Morningstar: Perfect Example of a Narcissist

In my own mind, I have juxtaposed these two pieces of popular media and have…

having an affair with a married narcissist

Having an Affair With a Married Narcissist

What if you are having an affair with a married person who has NPD? This…

blocking a narcissist on facebook

Is blocking a Narcissist on Facebook a Good Idea?

If I block the narc from my FB page, for example, will he feel strong…

sons wife narcissist

My Son’s Wife Is A Narcissist: How To Let Him Know?

Should I just come out and share my fears and give him information about Narcissism?…

What does the narcissist feel about no contact_

What Does The Narcissist Feel About “No Contact”?

I have no contact now for 11 weeks. Before I had contact on and off.…

20 signs to spot a narcissist early

20 Traits Of The Narcissist – So You Can Spot Them Early

Having one or two traits of narcissism is not unusual, but when narcissistic traits are…

How to leave a Narcissist

How to Leave a Narcissistic Relationship? Step-by-Step Guide to Regain Your Freedom

However, you can successfully leave the narcissist and regain your sanity, self-esteem, and joy by…