Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

Do Narcissists Ever Stop Lying

Do Narcissists Ever Stop Lying?

To you or I, a lie is costly to the conscience and to the relationships…

10 Lies Narcissists Will Never Admit

10 Lies Narcissists Will Never Admit

I love honesty. Yes, me too. I’ll always be honest with you. You think that’s…

6 Things You Can 100% Rely On A Narcissist To Do

6 Things You Can 100% Rely On A Narcissist To Do

It’s no secret that a narcissist is never going to be relied upon for the…

6 Boundaries Narcissists Violate

6 Boundaries Narcissists Violate

This is my circle. Anything inside it is acceptable. Anything outside it is a violation.…

6 Favors Narcissists Expect From You

6 Favors Narcissists Expect From You

Hey, would you mind just…? Oh, can you help me…? I need you to… The…

8 Stories Narcissists Fake

8 Fake Stories Narcissists Tell You

Fakes stories exist for these reasons: To keep you away from the truth. To impress…

6 Secrets Narcissists Protect

6 Secrets Narcissists Protect

We all have our secrets; most of the time, they’re innocent. Narcissists also have secrets.…

10 Questions Narcissists Refuse To Answer

10 Questions Narcissists Refuse To Answer

The refusal to answer a question can be frustrating. You have a query, you want…

10 Promises Narcissists Never Keep

10 Promises Narcissists Never Keep

“Hey. There’s something I need to tell you, but you can’t tell anybody.” “Sure, go…

8 Truths Narcissists Can’t Handle

8 Truths Narcissists Can’t Handle

Tell a narcissist the truth, and you’re either going to get the Jekyll or the…

10 Things Narcissists Will Never Admit

10 Things Narcissists Will Never Admit

You: Okay look, please just admit that… The narcissist blocking their ears: La la la…

When Narcissists Know You Know

When Narcissists Know You Know

Hold your nerve! The narcissist knows, you know. They’ve got wind of your knowledge. Maybe…

How to Stop Going For Unhealthy Relationships?

How to Stop Going For Unhealthy Relationships?

There’s something about them, right? They have a glint in their eye. They smile at…

Why Boundaries Don’t Work With Narcissists

Why Boundaries Don’t Work With Narcissists

You know what? You can try, and I’ll admire you for that much. You can…

Why Do Narcissists Abuse Their Victims?

Why Do Narcissists Abuse Their Victims?

Let’s get one thing clear: abuse is not okay. It’s really not. Not any kind…

Why Do Narcissists Treat Their Spouses Horribly?

Why Do Narcissists Treat Their Spouses Horribly?

You always wanted somebody who makes everything better. Somebody who understands the importance of feeling…

Why Do Narcissists Leave Suddenly?

Why Do Narcissists Leave Suddenly?

You’ve just got to know somebody, and everything is perfect. You’ve been together for a…

Why Do Narcissists Cheat So Much?

Why Do Narcissists Cheat So Much?

Narcissists love to cheat. They go out, see somebody who catches their eye, and exchange…

Why Do Narcissists Have Affairs?

Why Do Narcissists Have Affairs?

Narcissists can’t help themselves. If they see a shiny coin in the sand, they make…

Why Do Narcissists Play Games With You?

Why Do Narcissists Play Games With You?

Now, if you’re assuming I mean something fun like a card game, or a board…

Why Do Narcissists Purposely Trigger You?

Why Do Narcissists Purposely Trigger You?

You, like us all, juggle so much. We have our strengths, we have our challenges,…

Why Do Narcissists Refuse To Apologize?

Why Do Narcissists Refuse To Apologize?

You’re waiting, wishing and hoping, aren’t you? Why does all that energy pertain to nothing?…

Why Do Narcissists Humiliate Their Partners?

Why Do Narcissists Humiliate Their Partners?

Narcissists are full of a lot. The more they dance toxically around you, the more…

Why Do Narcissists Blame You For Cheating?

Why Do Narcissists Blame You For Cheating?

So, let’s get this straight… You’re in love. With a narcissist. They cheat on you.…