Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

This is the Biggest Red Flag You Are Dating a Narcissist

This is the Biggest Red Flag You Are Dating a Narcissist

By now you know what a red flag is, and if you don’t, I’ve got…

5 Normal Things That Drive Narcissists Nuts

5 Normal Things That Drive Narcissists Nuts

Define normal? Okay. Normal in this context is how we go about our days in…

The ONE Thing That Makes Every Narcissist Snap

The ONE Thing That Makes Every Narcissist Snap

There’s always that one thing designed to make any narcissist snap like they’re a crocodile…

20 Reasons Why Narcissists Secretly Hate You

20 Reasons Why Narcissists Secretly Hate You

I know you probably wanted less reasons, but what good of a person would I…

Why Do Narcissists Claim To Be Experts in Things They Know Nothing About?

Why Do Narcissists Claim To Be Experts in Things They Know Nothing About?

Mr or Mrs Know-it-all strikes again! Your eyes roll for the fiftieth time as the…

8 Reasons Why You Can’t Stop Loving The Narcissist

8 Reasons Why You Can’t Stop Loving The Narcissist

Loving comes easy when it’s the right people we love, doesn’t it? The kind eyes…

Narcissists Unblock YOU because of These 10 Things

Narcissists Unblock YOU because of These 10 Things

Peace and quiet. Beautiful, isn’t it? Finally, you can sleep at night. You’ve gotten over…

11 Reasons Why Narcissists Do ALL These Mean Things!

11 Reasons Why Narcissists Do ALL These Mean Things!

Just for once, can they just do nothing? Why do narcissists always have to be…

Why Narcissists Give Your Replacement Everything They Denied You

Why Narcissists Give Your Replacement Everything They Denied You

The time has come for the narcissist to replace you. It’s been a long time…

10 Reasons Why Narcissists Accuse You Of Cheating (And Don’t Believe You)

10 Reasons Why Narcissists Accuse You Of Cheating (And Don’t Believe You)

Far be it from me to offer you just one reason why narcissists accuse you…

Why Do Narcissists Have Ears When They Never Listen?

Why Do Narcissists Have Ears When They Never Listen?

The human body is a complex system, with every part of it created for a…

8 Secret Thoughts Narcissists Have About Themselves

8 Secret Thoughts Narcissists Have About Themselves

Do you ever wish you could get inside the mind of a narcissist and find…

What Narcissists Really Mean When They Say ‘I Love You’

What Narcissists Really Mean When They Say ‘I Love You’

I love you can mean so many things. A gesture to a friend. A whisper…

NEVER Tell A Narcissist These Things During Divorce

NEVER Tell A Narcissist These Things During Divorce

The time has come, and the decision to divorce has been made. You’re probably in…

8 Silly Mistakes Narcissists Make

8 Silly Mistakes Narcissists Make

Believe it or not, narcissists make mistakes every single day. Just when you thought you…

How To Brilliantly Outsmart A Narcissist

How To Brilliantly Outsmart A Narcissist

In case you didn’t know it: You’re already brilliant. You may not have been told…

13 Red Flag Behaviors When Narcissists Meet Your Friends

13 Red Flag Behaviors When Narcissists Meet Your Friends

The joyous occasion of when somebody you care about meets your friends for the first…

What Narcissists Really Think When You Ignore Them

What Narcissists Really Think When You Ignore Them

The thoughts of a narcissist are going to always present differently to what they show…

10 Morning Habits That Reveal Someone Is a Narcissist

10 Morning Habits That Reveal Someone Is a Narcissist

Good morning! How are you? Did you sleep well? If you are with a narcissist,…

WARNING: How Narcissists Use Your Children Against You

WARNING: How Narcissists Use Your Children Against You

If you’re unlucky enough to share children with a narcissist, you will be in one…

How To Brilliantly Outsmart A Narcissist

How To Brilliantly Outsmart A Narcissist

In case you didn’t know it: You’re already brilliant. You may not have been told…

What Really Makes A Narcissist Panic Inside

What Really Makes A Narcissist Panic Inside

If you always look at the cake you’ll never see the flour. In order to…

What Narcissists Really Want From Their Victims

What Narcissists Really Want From Their Victims

You meet a person so charming that you can literally feel being swept off your…

Things Narcissists Will Never Tell You About Their Fears

Things Narcissists Will Never Tell You About Their Fears

If asked you right now what your fears were, what would you say to me?…