Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

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Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

how do narcissists treat their friends

How Do Narcissists Treat Their Friends? Spoiler, Not Good!

How do Narcissists treat their friends? The same way they treat everyone else – not…

co parenting with narcissist

12 Helpful Tips for Co-Parenting With a Narcissist

How do you co-parent with a Narcissist? Is this even possible? We wrote these 13…

when a narcissist is exposed

What Happens When a Narcissist Is Exposed?

To the narcissist, exposure feels unexpected, malicious, and downright wrong. But that doesn’t mean you…

how to make the narcissist angry

How to Piss Off a Narcissist in 12 Surprisingly Easy Ways?

But you can also stand up for yourself, set boundaries, and refuse their gaslighting strategies.…

do narcissists enjoy kissing

Do Narcissists Enjoy Kissing? The Answer Might Surprise You

He loved kissing you because he knew it would get you hooked, sorry to be…

Narcissist Lies

11 Crazy Narcissist Lies They use to Control You

Why do narcissists lie? Because they suffer from a narcissistic personality disorder. That is the…

scapegoat child narcissistic family

The Family Scapegoat: When The Scapegoat Fights Back

Rather than own personal accountability ovr their actions, the narcissist can continue to live how…

sons of narcissistic mother

How Are Sons of Narcissistic Mothers Affected in Life?

The parenting style of narcissistic mothers can be acutely damaging; sons experiencing years of emotional…

How to Make a Narcissist Tell the Truth_

6 Honest Ways to Make a Narcissist Tell the Truth

If you know a narcissist, you know exactly what it feels to catch them in…

The Toxic Narcissistic Family Dynamics Explained

The Toxic Narcissistic Family Dynamics Explained

Since there are more narcissistic families out there than ever, it’s important that we understand…

Why Do Narcissists Have a Golden Child and Scapegoat Child_

Why Do Narcissists Have a Golden Child and Scapegoat Child?

One of the “pattern” that Thomas refers to here is known as the “golden child…

How Does a Narcissist React When They Can't Control You Anymore?

How Does a Narcissist React When They Can’t Control You?

How does a Narcissist react when they can’t control you anymore? One of the major…

revenge on a narcisssist

5 Risky Ways To Get Revenge on a Narcissist

The narcissist has hurt you so many times.  Maybe they’ve gaslighted you or smeared you…

narcissist hoovering

15 Deceptive Narcissist Hoovering Examples

Every once in a while you’ll see a story on the news – a domestic…

why are empaths and narcissists attracted to each other

Why are Empaths and Narcissists Attracted to Each Other?

If the phrase “opposites attract” was in the dictionary, empaths and narcissists would be the…

dealing with a malignant narcissist

What is Malignant Narcissism? 9 Signs To Spot The Malignant Narcissist

How do you know you are dealing with a malignant narcissist? Let’s get into what…

signs of a narcissistic grandmother

12 Toxic Signs of a Narcissistic Grandmother (and how to deal with her)

So before we get to the specific signs of a narcissistic grandmother and how you…

things that make a narcissist miserable

How To Make a Narcissist Miserable?

What triggers a Narcissist? How do you make a Narcissist Miserable? These 14 things make…

adult children of narcissistic parents

How Do Adult Children of Narcissists Develop in Life?

Unfortunately, this is a fairly common scenario among adult children of narcissistic parents. How does…

How Do Narcissist Mothers Affect Their Daughters_

The Effects of a Narcissistic Mother on her Daughter

These daughters often spend their childhoods feeling confused, alone, and frightened. As they grow up,…

What is Narcissistic Projection (With Examples)

What is Narcissistic Projection? (With Examples)

In this post, I want to talk about two behaviors in particular – things that…

low contact narcissistic mother

How To Go Low Contact With Your Narcissistic Mother?

It is possible to go low contact with your mother? This approach aims to keep…

how do empaths protect themselves from narcissists

How Do Empaths Protect Themselves From Narcissists?

Empaths are often narcissists’ main targets because they are seen as an easy source of…

how to deal with your narcissistic sibling

How to Deal With Your Narcissistic Sibling?

So How do you deal with your narcissistic sibling? And what are the characteristics that…