Are you Dealing With a Narcissist in Your life?

A newsletter dedicated to people who are dealing with narcissists in their lives. You will learn how to deal with Narcissists with expert articles, personal questions from readers and tools like positive affirmations.

Hi, my name is Alexander and I welcome you to my blog, The Narcissistic Life. The main topics of my TNL are Narcissism, Relationships and how to strive after Toxic relationships.

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Latest Articles on the Blog

5 Powerful Comebacks That Shut Narcissists Up Instantly

5 Powerful Comebacks That Shut Narcissists Up Instantly

I know what you all need in your life, aside from a lottery win and…

20 Things That Seriously Confuse a Narcissist

20 Things That Seriously Confuse a Narcissist

Don’t you just love the puzzled look on the narcissist’s face when you confuse the…

Say This ONE Line To Instantly Shut Down Narcissist Manipulation

Say This ONE Line To Instantly Shut Down Narcissist Manipulation

Have you ever just wanted to press mute, or even better, delete? Narcissists are the…

Narcissists HATE It When You Figure This Out (And It’s Easy!)

Narcissists HATE It When You Figure This Out (And It’s Easy!)

It’s so easy to figure out exactly who a narcissist is, and why they are…

How To Accidentally Drive A Narcissist Crazy, Without Really Trying

How To Accidentally Drive A Narcissist Crazy, Without Really Trying

Life is all about making that effort, right? But you know what? Just sometimes, you…

Narcissists Give Up When You Stop Doing THIS!

Narcissists Give Up When You Stop Doing THIS!

They just keep chasing you, don’t they? Narcissists are an incessant bunch of people –…

How One Text Message Can Completely Destroy A Narcissist’s Control Over You

How One Text Message Can Completely Destroy A Narcissist’s Control Over You

We all love a text, don’t we? A little hi, hello, how are you? Maybe…

Victims Share The ONE Phrase That Left Narcissists Speechless

Victims Share The ONE Phrase That Left Narcissists Speechless

Part of my job is to help people overcome the abuse they suffered with the…

This Is What Happens When You Mirror a Narcissist’s Behavior Back At Them

This Is What Happens When You Mirror a Narcissist’s Behavior Back At Them

Mirror, mirror on the wall Who’s the most toxic of them all? The narcissist serves…

The Narcissist Hates It When You Know This About Them

The Narcissist Hates It When You Know This About Them

Narcissists are a different breed, they really are. When it’s normal to be happy, they…

How To NOT Attract a Narcissist

How To NOT Attract a Narcissist

It’s a topic I know you will all be keen on. You want to live…

Body Language Expert Reveals How To Disarm Any Narcissist

Body Language Expert Reveals How To Disarm Any Narcissist

With narcissists, there’s only really one way to disarm them. I know your own history…

12 Things The Narcissist Wants You To Believe That Are Not True

12 Things The Narcissist Wants You To Believe That Are Not True

The narcissist has said it, so it must be true, right? Right? I mean, you…

9 Things Narcissists Say To Avoid Any Blame (And Blame You Instead)

9 Things Narcissists Say To Avoid Any Blame (And Blame You Instead)

Wait for a narcissist to take any kind of blame and you will be waiting…

4 Things Narcissists Do When You Finally Stand Up To Them

4 Things Narcissists Do When You Finally Stand Up To Them

When the time comes where you finally stand up to the narcissist, you’re going to…

5 Things Narcissists Do When They Make a Mistake

5 Things Narcissists Do When They Make a Mistake

Oh dear. What happened? Does the narcissist want to sit down and talk about it?…

8 Things Narcissists Do When They Can’t Win An Argument

8 Things Narcissists Do When They Can’t Win An Argument

So you’ve got a narcissist in a corner that they know they’re not going to…

8 Ways a Narcissist Will Punish You When You Stand Up To Them

8 Ways a Narcissist Will Punish You When You Stand Up To Them

Feeling courageous? I will start by saying good for you! It’s not everyday that kind…

16 Ways To Piss a Narcissist Off The Most and Ruin Them

16 Ways To Piss a Narcissist Off The Most and Ruin Them

Time has been kind to me. It’s allowed me to get to know a lot…

7 Things Narcissists Hide From Everyone (Even Their Closest Friends) 

7 Things Narcissists Hide From Everyone (Even Their Closest Friends) 

You think people would be pretty transparent these days, wouldn’t you? We all want to…

Narcissists Are Attracted To You When You Do These Things

Narcissists Are Attracted To You When You Do These Things

Narcissists don’t always feel attracted to people. If you’re of a certain character, you might…

These Are The Most Horrible Things Narcissists Do To You

These Are The Most Horrible Things Narcissists Do To You

I often joke about narcissists and their ability to make anybody they can feel miserable.…

9 Things Narcissists Do When They Want Revenge

9 Things Narcissists Do When They Want Revenge

Narcissists live to seek revenge. As much as they hate it when a plan doesn’t…

Why Do Narcissists Stare At You While You Sleep?

Why Do Narcissists Stare At You While You Sleep?

You didn’t think they could get any creepier, did you? You thought the strangeness and…