Q: My ex boyfriend beat me up last September. Since that time I have had no contact with him. I blocked him from my email and my phone, Facebook, Skype everywhere I could think. My problem is not his contact with me. It is his contact with my friends who he happens to know. He contacts my friends tells them things about me and pumps them for information about me. I have moved. Changed my phone number. He is marrying someone else she is having a baby. Why can he just not leave me alone. Do I have any options other than leaving all my friends that he might know or have met behind because he might contact them.
I feel bad for my friends that he has dragged them into his craziness, but I am also terrified of him and have no idea of what he mihgt be capable of. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Since he isn’t directly contacting me (he cannot). I don’t know what I can do if anything. Thank you again, D.
A: D, unfortunately you have done everything right and done everything YOU could do. Now you just have to wait it out. Maintain No Contact and he will eventually lose interest and turn his attention to abusing someone else. All you can do is plead with your friends NOT to talk to him about you and preferably minimize their conversations with him altogether. If they are good friends they will support you and do this for you. If they aren’t supportive, you don’t need them as friends. If they are really just acquaintances- don’t give out any personal information. If they don’t have anything to tell him, his talking to them will fade away.
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