Last Updated on May 31, 2022 by Alexander Burgemeester
The words ‘I miss you’ are endearing; they let someone know how much you appreciate them and enjoy being in their company.
If you’re not the shy type, it’s pretty easy to tell someone you miss them. But responding can be difficult if you want to avoid sounding cliché.
You could respond by saying something like, “I miss you too,” “that’s sweet of you,” or “I can’t wait to see you again.”
There may also be times when you’re not on speaking terms with your partner, they tell you they miss you, but you’re so annoyed that you don’t feel the same way.
There are several scenarios where you might need to respond to someone saying they miss you. Keep reading to find out how to respond to I miss you.
How To Respond To I Miss You Text From A Crush
When you have a crush on someone, and they tell you they miss you, you’ll feel like you’ve won the lottery; you’re so excited and feel like you’re on cloud nine.
Here are a few ways you can respond to an I miss you text from a crush. “I miss you too,” “that’s so sweet of you,” or “I can’t wait to see you again.”
Here are ten ways to respond to an I miss you text from a crush.
#1 I miss you too
There’s no beating around the bush with this message; you’re over the moon that your crush misses you because you most definitely miss them.
You may even be relieved that they’ve said it first because you were thinking about texting them, but you were too shy.
Now you know you’re both on the same page, and none of you are hiding how you feel.
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#2 That’s so sweet of you
Even if you do miss your crush, you might not want to say it back just in case they think you’re saying it because they said it. Instead, you can get creative and use it as a time to flirt with your crush.
By responding like this, you’re acknowledging the message and letting them know that you’re happy they miss you and that it feels good to hear it.
#3 I can’t wait to see you again
You went out with your crush, and you had a great time; it’s clear you had a connection on the date, and you’ve been texting back and forth and even spoke on the phone a couple of times.
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Your crush telling you they miss you makes it clear they want to see you again. So now is the time to let them know you feel the same way and you’re looking forward to seeing them again soon.
#4 Flying kiss emoji
A romantic emoji is always a good response. You know what they say; actions speak louder than words.
Your crush will interpret your response as you miss kissing them or you’re blowing them a kiss.
Either way, your crush will be more than happy with a flying kiss emoji.
#5 Three days left until we see each other again
The fact that you’re counting down the days until you see your crush shows that you’re desperate to see them again.
You love spending time with your person, and as far as you’re concerned, the days simply are not going fast enough.
#6 I was concerned you were tired of me already
Put a laughing emoji at the end of this, so your crush doesn’t jump to the conclusion that you’re insecure and fishing for compliments.
Also, only respond with this if you’ve seen each other a lot lately, or it won’t make sense. You’ll both be able to laugh about it, but it could also lead to a more serious conversation about the relationship.
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Since the ball is now in your crush’s court, they may tell you why they miss you, and then you can do the same.
#7 You make me feel so alive
Not to say that you feel dead when you’re not with your crush, but they give you that extra spark when you’re together.
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Your crush might be the motivational type that gets excited about life. They don’t need fancy, grand gestures to make them happy; they’re excited over seemingly random things like a blossoming flower.
Your crush makes you appreciate things you’ve never considered.
#8 The less I see you, the more I miss you
As the saying goes, ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder.’ But this only applies to people you actually like.
You miss your crush because they positively influence your life, and you enjoy spending time with them.
When you’re apart, you feel the void, and it grows deeper and deeper the longer you’re away from them.
#9 I’m an expert at missing you
If your crush is witty, they’ll get this. Experts are professionals who have mastered their craft because they’ve spent so much time on it.
In other words, you spend so much time missing your crush that you’re now an expert at it!
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#11 I wish I had a time machine
Say this when you’ve arranged a date to see your crush a couple of weeks from the date you’re texting each other.
Maybe you’re in a long-distance relationship, and you can’t see each other as often as you’d like. You might see each other once a month, and there’s nothing you can do during that time but wait.
In theory, a few weeks isn’t a long time. But when you’re really into someone, it can feel like forever.
#13 I’ve just been listening to our favorite song
You might not be a couple yet, but you’re well on your way to it. A lot of couples have a special song that provokes feelings of nostalgia.
If you guys have found your song already, that’s a really good sign. Anytime you hear the song, you think about your crush and vice versa; it makes you miss them.
#14 I had such an awesome time on our date
Maybe the last time you saw your crush was a couple of weeks ago when they took you on a date.
You’ve spoken since, but you didn’t arrange to see each other again. Letting your crush know how much of a good time you had may encourage them to set up another date soon.
#15 I was literally just thinking about you
You don’t think about people you don’t miss. At this point, your crush will probably ask, “so what were you thinking about then?”
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How you respond is up to you, but this is a great time to score some brownie points and tell your crush how wonderful you think they are.
If they’re feeling sentimental too, they’ll tell you how they feel about you.
#16 Are you free this evening?
If you didn’t miss your crush, you wouldn’t make time for them. So letting them know you’re available and you want to see them again is another way of saying you miss them too.
#17 What is it about me that you miss?
If you want to know how much your crush likes you, now is the time to ask.
Also, it gives you the chance to work out whether they’re just saying they miss you because they feel they should be saying stuff like that at this point.
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Finally, a response like this will ensure your crush has actually thought about what it is about you that they miss.
#18 What would we be doing if we were together right now?
How far do you want to take your flirting? Maybe you haven’t slept together yet, or you’re comfortable talking about what you’d do to each other if you did.
Now’s the perfect opportunity to go there. If your crush is on the shy side, they may respond with something like, “we’d be eating dinner and watching a movie.”
If that’s the case, you’ll know not to push it because they either didn’t get the tone of the message or they’re not comfortable getting sexual with you yet.
#19 Saying I miss you isn’t enough
So you’ve been dating your crush for a while, and things are getting really intense.
You see each other all the time; when you’re not together, you’re on the phone, texting, or video calling.
You’re crazy about each other, but you don’t know whether it’s the right time to say ‘I love you’ because you’ve only been dating each other for two months.
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When it comes to saying these three important words, relationship expert Carla Marie Manly says there’s no time frame to tell you’re significant other you love them.
However, she also says you should wait until you’re absolutely sure because it can ruin the relationship when it’s said prematurely.
So with a response like this, you’re saying that you’ve got strong feelings, but you want to make sure you don’t say the L-word prematurely.
#20 I think you’ve got a piece of my heart
When you really like someone, you love spending time with each other, you challenge each other, and you make each other better people, you’ll feel incomplete when you’re not together.
Responding “I think you’ve got a piece of my heart” lets your crush know that you miss them more than they could imagine, to the point that you don’t feel complete when you’re not together.
How to Respond To I Miss You Text From A Friend
It’s lovely to have good friends to hang out with. Sometimes, we don’t always tell our friends how much they mean to us, so it’s fantastic that your friend is reaching out to tell you they miss you.
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You can respond with something like, “I’ve been thinking about you recently, I hope you’re doing good,” “it’s been a while, we should catch up soon,” or “I’ve still got your shoes in my closet, I think about you every time I see them.”
Here are three ways to respond to an I miss you text message from a friend.
#1 I’ve still got your shoes in my closet; I think about you every time I see them
You and your friend are so close that you stay at each other’s houses a lot. Unfortunately, your friend has a habit of leaving clothing items any time they stay over.
It’s not a one-off; it’s literally all the time! It’s something you’ve joked about for years. But you always think of your friend whenever you see an item of their clothing, and this time it happens to be a pair of shoes.
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#2 I Saw your book launch on your IG, you finally did it; I’m so proud of you
Say this to a friend you haven’t seen in a while. Maybe you moved to a different city or country and didn’t maintain contact.
But your friend had been talking about writing a book for years, they’ve finally done it, and you’re really proud of them.
#3 If it weren’t for you, I’d still be taking the long route home after work
Friendships are also about making each other’s lives better.
For example, when you first moved to your new home, your friend drove 30 miles to show you all the shortcuts in the area because she used to live there and is very familiar with the place.
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Mentioning this is your way of letting your friend know how much you appreciate their thoughtfulness.
How To Respond To I Miss You Without Saying It Back?
Maybe you’ve just started dating this person, and you don’t want to get ahead of yourself by laying all your cards out on the table.
So instead of saying you miss them back, say something like, “I really enjoy spending time with you,” “We had a great time last night, maybe we can do it again sometime,” or “I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately.”
#1 I really enjoy spending time with you
If you enjoy spending time with someone, it means you want to spend as much time with them as possible. When you’re away from that person, you miss them loads.
#2 We had a great time last night; maybe we can do it again sometime
Maybe you’ve just started seeing this person, and you don’t want to move too quickly, but you like them just as much as they like you.
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You don’t want to jump full steam ahead and say you miss them too, so instead, you tell them how much fun you had and wouldn’t mind doing it again.
#3 I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately
The person on the other end of the phone might reply with something like, “thinking about what I wonder?”
Telling someone you’re thinking about them makes them curious, as they want to know in what ways they’ve been running through your mind.
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How To Respond To I Miss You Text When You Don’t
Maybe you’ve argued with your partner, and you’re really not feeling them right now.
Or you’ve just realized a really good friend of yours is crushing on you, and you don’t miss them because you don’t feel the same way. What do you say?
Here are some tips, “I’m not in the mood for your games,” “I’m swamped at the moment, message me later,” or “I don’t know how you want me to respond to that.”
Keep reading to find out how to respond to an I miss you text message when you don’t.
#1 Well, I don’t miss you
If you really want to be blunt, just tell the person outright. Maybe they’ve upset you so much that you don’t wish to see them again.
If that’s the case, shut it down immediately, and let them know that the feeling is most definitely not mutual. You’ve had a conversation about your situation, and as far as you’re concerned, the damage has already been done.
The person took things too far, and you’re not trying to work anything out. Once you’ve replied, don’t continue engaging in conversation with this individual; keep it moving.
#2 I’m not in the mood for your games
If your partner has a habit of starting unnecessary arguments and then groveling back after they’ve had the chance to think about their behavior, you’re probably really fed up with their childish games by now.
So instead of allowing them to reel you back into their web of splendor, let them know that you’re not impressed and you’re fed up with their nonsense.
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Putting your foot down might shock them into changing their ways; if not, you might need to consider whether you want to be in a relationship like this.
#3 I’m swamped at the moment; message me later
If you get an I miss you text message from a friend you suspect is crushing on you, texting back a response like this will give you the opportunity to think about how you’re going to break the news to them that you’re not interested.
#4 I don’t know how you want me to respond to that
Again, if you’re having relationship issues and you’re not feeling your partner right now, there’s no point in acting like everything is okay and telling them you miss them too.
A response like this means that they need to think about how they’re treating you. If you were treating them like that, how would they feel?
How To Respond To I Miss You Text From Your Ex
How you respond to an I miss you text message from your ex will depend on the nature of the break-up and whether you’re considering getting back together with your ex-partner.
You might say something like, “and what is that supposed to mean?” “I miss you too,” or “I’ve moved on now.”
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Here are some tips on how to respond to an I miss you text from your ex.
#1 And what is that supposed to mean?
If your ex-partner dumped you because they claimed they weren’t ready for a relationship, or they’d met someone else, or for any other reason, why are they coming back now?
You have every right to be suspicious of their motives, and if you want to know what they’re playing at, ask.
#2 I miss you too
Only tell your ex that you miss them too if you want to give the relationship another chance.
For example, you may have had a heated argument, and you broke up in haste. If that’s the case, and you want to get back together, then go ahead and let your ex know how you feel.
However, if you were in a toxic yoyo relationship where you were hell-bent on destroying each other any time you argued, rekindling this old flame might not be good.
#3 You’ve never said this before
Your ex never once told you they missed you when you were together. In fact, they treated you as if you were a common thing and didn’t value you at all.
But now, you’re not together anymore; they’ve realized how awesome you really were. Oh well… it’s too late now!
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#4 I’ve moved on now
People end relationships for all types of reasons.
They may have met someone they’re more compatible with, there were certain things about their partner’s character they couldn’t handle, or they just weren’t ready for a serious relationship.
Whether you dumped your partner or they dumped you, the time has passed, and there’s no going back.
It may not be that you’ve got a new partner, but you simply don’t want to get back together with your ex because you know you aren’t meant for each other.
If that’s the case, let them know, and don’t open that door again.
Hopefully, these suggestions will give you plenty of good ideas on how to respond to someone saying they miss you.
They may even inspire you to add some of your own. Either way, you’ll never again run out of creative ways to tell someone you miss them too.