Believe it or not, there are some people out there the narcissist will never be able to break.
The super empath is a force of nature that nobody else can mess with, and I will prove it to you today.
If you want to see what really makes a narcissist quake in their boots, then look no further, because I want to break down the traits of a super empath, and what it takes to rise above all narcissism.
#1 The empath and the narcissist: the (non) perfect love story
In the blue corner: The narcissist! The ego is in the ring! The gloves are off, and the cape is flowing freely behind their egotistical stature.
They are ready to battle, and have come into the ring with all the usual toxic games and tools that have thus far led them to this point in time.
In the red corner: The super empath! The thinker, the feeler, the compassionate and kind, sensitive person.
The giver, the observer, the attuned soul who reads people like a book. They don’t want to battle, but are willing to stand up for what they believe in.
Together and facing off to each other, they seem like total opposites, but there are elements of this dynamic duo that attract and ignite sparks.
#2 How the super empath and narcissist see each other
The super empath backs off from the initial battle; not wanting to raise a fist or get involved in any kind of negativity.
They hold their hands up, asking the narcissist if they instead, want to talk about things instead of getting into a fight.
“We are better than this,” they say calmly over the anticipating crowd. “We can learn to talk, and learn about each other.”
“NEVER!” the narcissist yells. “I WANT TO FIGHT! I WANT TO WIN!”
The bell dings, and the circling of the ring ensues. The super empath tries to tame the narcissist, with comments such as:
- You’re better than this
- We can talk
- Let’s communicate
- It’s okay to be scared
- Let’s work together
- Who hurt you?
The narcissist only fuels up on these comments, and tries to take a swipe, but fails. The super empath dodges the swing.
Let’s break and think about this for a moment.
The super empath is doing everything they can to avoid conflict, and sees a weakness in the narcissist.
The narcissist refuses to admit they have an ounce of weakness in their bones, and as they face being challenged by the super empath, they feel even more angry.
The narcissist is trying to intimidate and bully, even control the situation, but the super empath is having none of it.
#3 What this means for the narcissistic personality
What a crushing blow for the narcissist, who to this point, has assumed they’re able to take over the dynamic of any situation with ease.
The narcissistic personality becomes rushed at the idea that the super empath has the kind of strength that is almost effortless.
To have their ego questioned in this non-direct way feels personal, and almost embarrassing for the narcissist.
It is even worse if there is a crowd of people watching, as the narcissist fails in front of the masses, rather than behind closed doors.
The narcissist wants revenge, but the super empath will just continue to wave their white flag and ask for peace.
Their strength is innate, and not built by stealing the confidence, joy, self-esteem and self-worth of others.
#4 Utilizing your best traits
Let’s look at some of the traits of a super empath, and you will begin to see why this all makes sense.
The super empath:
- Have incredibly strong self-esteem
- Need strong boundaries
- Have built-in, deep intuition
- Are excellent listeners
- Remain true to themselves at all times
- Have a strong, unmovable identity
- Naturally give and love to heal
Can you see what’s happening here? I have literally just described the narcissist’s worst nightmare.
These traits, if you are a super empath, can be utilized to the highest standard, not just because you are faced with a narcissist ,but because it is fundamentally who you are.
That will shake the narcissist to their core, and leave them unable to break you in the slightest.
#5 Strength like nobody else
If there’s one trait in another human that a narcissist doesn’t like, it is that of strength.
To know who you are to the point where nothing will remove that from you is a clear sign that even a narcissist’s game playing won’t budge your identity.
And they hate it. Think about the above; you have these two kinds of people in a boxing ring, and even under all that pressure to perform and give the narcissist what they want, the super empath said no, and remained true to themselves.
That means a lot when it comes to the breaking of a character.
The super empath wil stop at nothing to stay focused on who they are, while the narcissist crumbles at the loss of their power to the moment.
#6 Compassion can never be killed
Super empaths don’t even have to try, they just are the kinds of people a narcissist can never break.
Their compassion knows no bounds, which makes it even more interesting. As the narcissist is frowning, gritting their teeth trying to make conflict real, the super empath almost feels pity for them, wondering why they are so full of hate that this is what they would want.
Super empaths don’t back down though, because they know who they are and they know who they want.
The difference is, the super empath doesn’t need to make others miserable in order for them to be the person they are.
Narcissists? They can’t last a day without harming the character of somebody else just to make them feel that little bit stronger.
But we are learning that this isn’t strength, this is just weakness disguised as something resembling an obsession for power.
#8 Spirit never to be broken
There is a strong spirit to a super empath, who loves to be who they were born as.
They feel almost blessed that they carry with them the kind of attitude that remains positive, even when faced with a narcissist trying to break them.
As much as narcissists try, they have no luck in the long term. They try to overthrow boundaries to no avail, they even try to gaslight, assuming they can get away with it.
They can’t. Not when it comes to super empaths.
Instead, narcissists will be met with real strength, not the fake kind that you pretend to have like all narcissists do.
It’s like dropping a rock and an egg from a height. One will shatter, one is far more likely to remain intact.
Narcissists have that same weak and thin outer shell to them as an egg does.
It’s the kind that breaks easily, unlike the great super empath, who is solidly sure of themselves from the inside out.
Not even a narcissist is able to break through those layers, and thankfully, they never do.
