I don’t need to remind you that narcissists are some of the cruelest people on the planet. Intent on destroying you and everything in your life, they won’t stop or care, or even be aware of your boundaries – because they have none for themselves. A lot of people come to me and ask me … Read more
In every single family, there is always a child who gets it. The child who understands the narcissist for who they really are underneath the outer charm and pretense. Believe me when I say that the truth-teller bathes in risky waters—but even as a child, they can be so innocent with their truth. No, I … Read more
One of the things I like to know I’m offering to you, are the important tools necessary for navigating life with a narcissist. I don’t want to throw information at you and walk away, so this topic is one of the most interesting questions I am often asked: Is it possible to let other people … Read more
Covert narcissists are the most sneaky of them all. It isn’t enough that they carry the traits of a regular narcissist, but they do so with the, “I just want to live my life in peace and do the best I can” attitude. Narcissists covertly find ways to get under your skin, and make it … Read more
Wouldn’t it be magical to believe in a place where narcissists don’t get under our skin? Well – no magic is necessary here! Narcissists make us want to be resistant to them because we are growing more and more sick and tired of their lies, manipulation and gaslighting. Many make the mistake of believing that … Read more
We’re constantly told… Never get on the wrong side of a narcissist. Why? Because it means you have done something they cannot stand – and that means punishment is justified. How do we know what is going to light the fire of a narcissist, spiraling them into a rage and sending you away confused? Believe … Read more
Narcissists like to think they’re unpredictable. They want you to wonder what will happen next each day, so you shift uncomfortably in your seat, waiting for their next move. What a narcissist says and what they do can soon be predicted once you have them figured out, in fact, you can almost guarantee what they … Read more
Hindsight is a wonderful thing, and it would be great if we could refuse to let all narcissists into our lives, wouldn’t it? To sense them coming and send them packing would be a dream – but it’s not always possible. We can’t choose who our family ends up marrying. We can’t choose who we … Read more
To the narcissist – money is power. Power is also abuse. They hold it over the heads of the unsuspecting as if it is a weapon of mass destruction, because they know how to use it to manipulate. Think about it – a narcissist doesn’t know how to love people, they only know how to … Read more
Okay, I want you to think about a person in your life right now, who is narcissistic. It doesn’t matter if they are friends, work colleagues, or family members – get them in your mind. Now imagine life without their drama. Without their chaos. Without the division they bring to you and others in your … Read more