Let’s get one thing clear: abuse is not okay. It’s really not. Not any kind of abuse is okay. You wait around for someone to come along and make your life that little bit happier, and you find somebody who creates chaos, conflict, and pain. Narcissists infamously mistreat their victims. They abuse with no remorse, … Read more
You always wanted somebody who makes everything better. Somebody who understands the importance of feeling safe and loved. Whole. Important. What did you get? Oh, right. You got a narcissist. Now you have this person in your life who treats you terribly. It’s not just something they do every now and then – this is … Read more
Now, if you’re assuming I mean something fun like a card game, or a board game, I need to readjust your expectations for this one! Think more along the lines of Snakes and Ladders – without the ladders. Yes, narcissists are snakes, and they will find you and make your life completely miserable. They love … Read more
Okay. I am writing this on behalf of over 30 people who have all asked me recently via social media this one question. I felt it appropriate to answer it properly – for them – and for you. Why do victims of narcissists feel guilty? “Alexander, why do they make me feel so bad?” “I … Read more
I want to see you all healing from narcissism. I truly mean that. Any narcissist who comes into your life and completely throws it upside down deserves to be gone. And you deserve to move on, and live the life you have every right to. Sometimes, to get to that place, you need to uncover … Read more
“You’re worthless.” “Nobody else would want you.” “I’m stuck with you.” “You’re terrible at cooking.” “You can’t drive for toffee.” “I thought you claimed to be intelligent.” I could write an entire book filled with just critical comments from a narcissist, and I’d need a sequel immediately! When a narcissist criticizes you, it’s often easy … Read more
The shocking truth behind why narcissists are believed over their victims might leave you speechless. If it’s ever happened to you, it can be the most invalidating experience. Seeing everybody side with them instead of you – the innocent party – there are sometimes no words. This purely boils down to calculated deceit, and the … Read more
If you’re expecting an apology, you’re never going to get one that is sincere from the narcissist. It will come in various other ways that actually make you feel even more uncomfortable rather than reassured. There is no conscience. There is no reflection. There is just the narcissist trying to exert their control and manipulation … Read more
Do you know that approximately 6.2% of the adult population in the United States has been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder? That’s a staggering number, considering the detrimental effects narcissists can have on their victims. One of these effects is brain fog, a state of mental confusion that leaves you feeling mentally exhausted and unable … Read more
Have you ever felt like a mere shadow of your former self? Perhaps you’ve experienced moments of doubt, questioning who you are and what you stand for. It’s a disturbing feeling. In this article, we will explore the subtle yet devastating ways in which narcissists can dismantle your identity, leaving you in a state of … Read more