There’s something about them, right? They have a glint in their eye. They smile at you, and it takes your breath away. They know you. They say they love you. Yet they treat you like that. It doesn’t make sense, but it’s familiar. Must be safe then, no? No. Unhealthy isn’t safe, even when you … Read more
Okay, I ‘m going to warn you right from the very start… If you are ever onto a narcissist: They will show you a side of them even YOU would never have dreamed of seeing. I hope you’re ready for that, because let me just say, things are going to get interesting. You’ll see it … Read more
Narcissistic relationships are a constant tug-of-war, aren’t they? You pull and pull, and you get nowhere. All the ways you want to see romance begin to dissolve as your once Charming Lover has turned into someone who treats you as if you don’t exist. Was it love? No, it never was. Now you’re on the … Read more
Narcissists have a great way of trapping us, don’t they? I don’t mean they capture us in nets in the woods – I mean really trapping us. Our minds become sworn to the belief that they are the be all and end all of everything. They’re not. We have been made to believe this because … Read more
Narcissists love to drag out the divorce process! They know their marriage is over but don’t want to make it official. You’d think they would, right? You’d think they would want to pick up their toxic backpack and get out of there – NOPE. There will be further mind games. There will be further manipulation … Read more
Marriages with a narcissist often turn sour, because the narcissist’s sense of entitlement, inability to take accountability for their actions, and excessive need for admiration are not conducive to a healthy relationship. Eventually, the narcissist’s partner may decide that divorce is the best option. When divorce is on the table, the spouse hopes that they … Read more
Outsmarting a narcissist might seem like something you would never be able to do. Think of all those times that toxic person has made you feel small, or even nothing. The idea of outsmarting them won’t come naturally to you, right? Wrong! You can absolutely outsmart a narcissist. They won’t see it coming, they won’t … Read more
Read, aim, FIRE! The narcissist is approaching. Retreat! Retreat! Wait… Why are you retreating? This is about defeat! Narcissists will have you believe they are undefeatable. They will convince you that their power reigns supreme. It does not. So let’s get down to the center of this – you can defeat them. And I will … Read more
You want to uncover the narcissist with what you’ve learned. You wonder how to do this, and as you figure that out, you pull the knowledge grenade, you throw it ahead, and you run. Why would you run, though? I mean, there’s no explosion. You’re right. No flames or bangs will occur, but the narcissist … Read more
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but they really don’t exist. They have been fabricated by your mind, hoping that one-day reality will match your inner wishes. Those wishes have turned into love for a fictional person. The narcissist is exactly who they are, and what you see is what … Read more