Ring, ring! Who’s there?… …Hello? …Hello? Oh, I see. It’s the narcissist, up to their next trick again. Being on the other end of the line means nothing when it comes to frustrating, controlling, manipulating or demanding your time. Phones are used like pawns in their game – and they absolutely love using and abusing … Read more
What do you think is the heaviest thing a person can carry? You might be thinking of a bag of rocks or a sack of sand. It isn’t anything tangible at all. The one thing that will anchor you and weigh you down is, in fact, a grudge. Holding onto one will prevent you from moving … Read more
Wait a hot second… ‘Weakness’ and ‘narcissist’ in the same sentence? Have I gone mad?! No. I’m very sane. You’d be quite surprised how weak every single narcissist on the planet actually is (despite how strong they claim to be). They’ll never want you to know about them, but I feel it’s wise for you … Read more
Sex is a form of intimacy that allows two people to express how they feel about each other. It’s an act that connects and fulfills. When two people in a healthy relationship make love, they do so knowing that they want to and because it’s enjoyable. It’s hardly a surprise that narcissists just can’t connect … Read more
My God. If we all had a shiny coin of our own currency for every time we got frustrated at the narcissist dodging yet another proverbial bullet – we’d be soaking up the sun on Bora Bora. They have absolutely no shame in what they avoid taking accountability for. You want something, anything, to just … Read more
You’re wrong if you think tests are solely reserved for educational purposes. Tests are also given by people who have no place dishing them out. People like narcissists. Being tested without even realizing what position you’ve been put in will alter you mentally and emotionally before you even understand what’s happening. That happy ending was … Read more
Do you ever feel like you’re being shielded from something when you’re with a narcissist? Something that would make you finally see your worth? That’s because you are. Oh, the ways they hide crucial information from you. The ways they keep even your own potential under wraps… It’s heartbreaking for the victims. I don’t believe … Read more
I know what you’re thinking. “If they loved me, why are they testing me?” It wouldn’t be unreasonable for you to question the love of somebody constantly putting pressure on you and pushing you to your limits. It isn’t normal, yet people who experience narcissistic abuse end up being continually tested. It doesn’t end well … Read more
You should never sit in the seat of certainty when it comes to any narcissist. You will never be there for long, because you were instead destined for confusion. Narcissists think and act differently, depending on their mood that day. If they feel like it, they will be nice. If they’re nice, it’ll be because … Read more
I mean, is there a nice way to destroy happiness?! No! There’s nothing nice about narcissists. The nice act is pretend – it’s not even close to real. What you need to do is realize that this isn’t going to change – and those cruel ways they destroy your smile is how they will wear … Read more