Your fingers are fidgeting. You’re looking at your phone, or your tablet. You want to reach out and just say hi. What could go wrong? Actually, plenty. No contact would have been a huge decision you made, and one that came with its own set of challenges. Now find yourself relapsing, and you are having … Read more
If I could protect you all from the impending doom of love-bombing, I would. I know people want to be loved and feel as though somebody special loves them. In reality – love-bombing doesn’t really do that. Yes, you’re getting attention, and it can be all glitter and promises… …But it never lasts. Love-bombing also … Read more
Guilt is one of those emotions that nobody with a healthy sense of self wants to place onto anybody. Why would they? It just makes them feel bad, and regret anything that caused you both to get to that point. If you’re being made to feel guilty, there will be something about the person doing … Read more
Einstein once said, “The only source of knowledge is experience.” Boy, was he right. Experiencing narcissism firsthand may have negative consequences on you – but to know who you’re dealing with will give you exactly what you need to differentiate. Toxic people vs. emotionally healthy people. You come first. You always have. And not in … Read more
When the narcissist comes into your life, they can cause just as much chaos as when they leave. And leaving, as much as it’s good to have them out of your life, can feel terrible. Why? Why would you miss them after all they did to you? Well, of course, that is the million-dollar question … Read more
I told you this yesterday. Didn’t we discuss this yesterday? I find it difficult to keep telling you this… Yes. Things can get really repetitive with narcissists for several reasons. If you find yourself pulling your hair out due to how much you have to constantly churn out the same phrases or requests – you … Read more
The worst part about being a witness to any narcissist, is that you see first hand how they get away with absolutely everything. The injustice makes you angry. You want to be able to understand exactly why Karma never seems to meet and greet them in the way it should. For everything you suffer and … Read more
Narcissists are known for their toxic behavior –that part is well established. Nobody really discusses just how addictive it is to date one. And I know you might be thinking, “Addictive? Really?” That’s where the addiction comes to life. You don’t know until you look and see for yourself. Addiction is real, and it can … Read more
I want you to picture your whole life like a big pie. There are slices for work, slices for health, slices for friendship, slices for hobbies, slices for love. The slices make up you as a whole. You love them all, because they equate. You can differentiate between them. Imagine mashing all those slices up. … Read more
Before I proceed, have you all got a safe and protective shield on standby? I hope so! Confronting a narcissist is going to involve you putting yourself heavily in the line of fire. It’s dangerous to even speak up to one due to never really knowing how they will react. But I get it. You … Read more