If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, you have probably heard it all. They use words and phrases in their desire to control everything about you. A narcissist is never wrong in their mind. They have a superior image of themselves and feel you should be submissive to their demands. Why a Narcissist … Read more
The saying, “A leopard can’t change its spots,” is a great way to describe a narcissist. This common saying can describe a person’s character, stating that they will not change, even when they pretend they will. Anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist or is close to one knows how they promise … Read more
Narcissists are masters of lying. If you confront them about their lies, they lie to escape it. Why do narcissists lie about anything, including stupid things? The truth is that they feel a sense of entitlement when they lie. Their lies support their self-image, self-importance, and ego. They do not bond and have no empathy. … Read more
Narcissists desire constant attention, and when their charm doesn’t get them the attention they need, they will become victims. It’s all about gaining the attention and admiration they desperately need to boost their ego. By becoming victims, they get people to feel sorry for them. When people feel sorry for them, they secure that much-needed … Read more
Narcissists often use guilt to influence and control you. They are dominants and they need to maintain control of you at all times. They want to control you, your behavior, and your actions. As a result, they distort your perception of reality, making you feel guilty, often for something you didn’t do, to maintain the … Read more
Narcissists leave destruction in their wake. They can turn you into a shell of what you used to be through several tactics. They are control freaks, dominants with the need to break you down and take control of your mind and actions. Anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist knows that it … Read more
The overall effects of narcissistic abuse vary, depending on how long you have been in the relationship. You may experience mild or severe anxiety; while some victims can get over their anxiety relatively quickly, others experience it for the rest of their lives. Narcissists like an anxious partner. When you are anxious, you are easier … Read more
Narcissists have a desire to control you, weakening any support structure you have. It is easy for you to make excuses for your narcissistic partner, mainly because you don’t want to be hurt or don’t want to face the truth. Narcissists want to be admired. They thrive on control and power. They will play people … Read more
Long-term relationships need honesty and trust. These two things go hand in hand when in a healthy relationship. Enter the narcissist where they go hand in hand with deceit. They come as a package deal. The narcissists’ lives focus on self-preservation, and they will say anything to remain important and influential. Narcissists live in a … Read more
Flying monkeys are important to a narcissist, carrying out their work and making them feel superior. Flying monkeys tend to be people who want to please; they don’t want to disappoint the narcissist. This is to the narcissist’s advantage. In many cases, the flying monkey is someone that the narcissist has manipulated. Maybe they fear … Read more