When all you want is the narcissist’s time, you will be disappointed. They will let you down and refuse to even give you a minute of it, because they think it’s too special to part with. And so you become the butt of their excuses. You become the reason they would rather do literally anything … Read more
You look around and heavily pick up on the fact that the narcissist is treating literally everybody they meet better than they treat you. A smile to a stranger, helping an elderly lady across the street, or even just making general conversation with somebody in line at the grocery store. Wherever they are: first impressions … Read more
A narcissist is happy until they’re not, and the two moods can occur within seconds of each other. If you look closely, you’ll see how much you can piss them off the happier you are. You’re successful. You’re joyous. You slept well. You have friends. You got that promotion. YOu stood up for yourself. Whatever … Read more
The course of your relationship with a narcissist will naturally spike up and crumble down, but sooner or later, they will realize their time is running out. There are 8 signs to look for here, and each one serves as its own red flag. Red flags can be hard to spot, but if you look … Read more
The first time you meet a narcissist will be the nicest and most charming they will ever be to you. From that day, the charm will stay the same until eventually, it wears off entirely. They go from acting like the hot tap is on, to permanently living in a state of cold, and for … Read more
Leaving the narcissist means you are in a great position of control. This control festers away in the narcissist’s mind, because they’re so used to having it. Now? Now it becomes about the hard truths they learn now you’ve walked away. They won’t be nice truths, in fact, they will taste bitter and cause the … Read more
The inevitable as happens: the narcissist has cheated on you. You know because it’s so darn obvious, yet the narcissist will take their lies to their grave if they could, so they will lie and lie their way out of it. That can sometimes mean you are accused, but it always means you’re treated like … Read more
So, you did the big thing and broke up with the narcissist. Congratulations! But wait, what’s going on? Why are you chasing? I thought this was your moment to break free and follow your heart toward a place of safety and happiness; something real. Chasing a narcissist is never about chasing a person. It’s about … Read more
The double-life you dread happening and convince yourself is impossible for your narcissistic partner to carry out I’m afraid, is totally possible – even probable. And you know something is off. There are so many gaps in your relationship that make no sense at all, and hide the potential that he is hiding so much. … Read more
The weirdest thing is, you didn’t sign up to any rules. You don’t recall being handed a contract to agree with, yet here you are, being forced to abide by these unspoken – and unfair – terms and conditions. Welcome to life with a narcissist. The hidden rulebook a narcissist is never without, involves you … Read more