Why Do Narcissists Have a Golden Child and Scapegoat Child?
One of the “pattern” that Thomas refers to here is known as the “golden child scapegoat dynamic.” Here’s what we know about what this is, why it arises, and how it affects the family.
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One of the “pattern” that Thomas refers to here is known as the “golden child scapegoat dynamic.” Here’s what we know about what this is, why it arises, and how it affects the family.
The narcissist has hurt you so many times. Maybe they’ve gaslighted you or smeared you or completely destroyed your self-esteem. And somehow, they continue to get away with their awful behavior. Even when things seem to be getting better, you may feel like you’re walking on eggshells. It’s like they can change their mood or … Read more
Smear campaigns by narcissists often feel demoralizing and exhaustive for the victim. It may seem like things will never get better, like you will always be stuck with their manipulative tactics.
Is this truly a case of successful treatment? And if it is, is this a common outcome? Can a Narcissist Change with proper treatment or motivation?
Have you ever had thoughts of doing the same thing? Perhaps you’re wondering if it’s a good idea. Should you tell a narcissist they are a narcissist?
Narcissistic rage is a reaction to Narcissistic Injury. It is a self-defense mechanism when their ego is under attack
What are the signs of the Narcissist final Discard? The Narcissist discard phase is often the final phase in the relationship. Relationships with narcissists follow a familiar pattern that begins the moment you meet them. Most often they will attempt to charm you and shower you with flattery. These traits make the narcissist popular, as … Read more
Theoretically, a true narcissist can’t tolerate being ignored….by anyone. Usually, they will act out or do anything to focus on that person’s attention back to themselves.