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The Narcissist and No Contact is The Ultimate Revenge

Alexander BurgemeesterOct 6, 20136 min read
The Narcissist and No Contact is The Ultimate Revenge

The “No Contact” rule for leaving a narcissist means exactly what it states – No Contact, No emails, no texts, no late night dial and hang-ups, no drive-by’s, no contacting by proxy (via friends or family), no Facebook or Favorite…

Why Is My Narcissistic Spouse Jealous of our Children?

Alexander BurgemeesterOct 2, 20137 min read
Why Is My Narcissistic Spouse Jealous of our Children?

“Anybody who hates children and dogs can’t be all bad.” (Leo Rosten, introducing W.C. Fields at a dinner) Why would a husband or wife be jealous of their own children? A parent with Narcissistic Personality Disorder who has children opens…

My Narcissist Boyfriend is Jealous of my Ex

Alexander BurgemeesterSep 28, 20136 min read
My Narcissist Boyfriend is Jealous of my Ex

It is not always obvious when a person has a narcissistic boyfriend… as narcissistic traits are not always immediately obvious. While there are different levels of narcissism, most narcissists are able to blend in with the rest of society. Symptoms…

The Narcissist and Second Marriage – Do They Remarry Quickly?

Alexander BurgemeesterSep 24, 20135 min read
The Narcissist and Second Marriage – Do They Remarry Quickly?

Why would a narcissist get married? And why do they often rush to RE-marry? How can someone who has a history of cheating and lying, who lacks empathy and compassion, and who has proven that he/she has no desire of…

The Narcissist Keeps Coming Back and Contacting Me

Alexander BurgemeesterSep 17, 20134 min read
The Narcissist Keeps Coming Back and Contacting Me

QUESTION: Like a bouncing ball, my narcissist boyfriend keeps coming back and constantly contacts me. I keep dumping him but he keeps coming back for more. He calls, emails, texts and even contacts me on Facebook until I take him…

The Narcissist is Never Wrong

Alexander BurgemeesterSep 14, 20136 min read
The Narcissist is Never Wrong

“I’m sorry.” Those are two of the most difficult words for most people to be able to honestly say. When we are genuinely sorry, we have to admit that we hurt someone and it also means that we are taking…