Alexander Burgemeester
When a narcissist offers a gift, it’s rarely a gesture of simple generosity. Their gifts often come with an unspoken expectation or a hidden cost. Recognizing the tactics behind the Narcissist’s selfless acts can illuminate the complex, sometimes manipulative, nature of their generosity. This article dives into why, when a narcissist hands you a gift, … Read more
In the heat of battle with a narcissist, words become weapons, and reality is often the first casualty. The arguments aren’t just disagreements. They’re meticulously crafted performances to undermine your confidence and twist the truth. From gaslighting that makes you question your memory to projection that turns their faults into your flaws, narcissists argue not … Read more
Walking away from a relationship with a narcissist is a brave step into the unknown. It’s not just about ending a partnership; it’s about freeing yourself from a web of mind games and emotional control. While you might hope for a clean break, narcissists often have other plans. Their reactions range from desperate attempts to … Read more
Being in a long-term relationship with a narcissist can leave you with many complex emotions. The pain from a relationship with a narcissist often comes from an accumulation of small actions rather than one significant event. Bottling up these negative feelings can harm your well-being, leading to stress or sadness. Discovering that you are not … Read more
Are you ever left feeling like you’re just a character in someone else’s drama-filled life story? If you’re dealing with a narcissist, chances are you’ve been there. Their behavior can leave you confused, tired, and wondering if it’s not all in your head. But there’s a pattern to their actions, clear signs that scream “narcissism.” … Read more
Have you ever felt like you were drifting away from your friends and family but couldn’t pinpoint why? If you’re involved with a narcissist, they might be pulling the strings behind the scenes. It’s all about control; they’re good at hiding what they’re doing. Narcissists isolate their partners by monopolizing their time, undermining other relationships, … Read more
In relationships with narcissists, those involved often end up wondering about their sense of reality. Relationships with Narcissists often start with excitement and many promises (known as the love bombing phase) but often lead to a tough cycle of emotional ups and downs. It’s not easy to recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse because the … Read more
There’s nothing like the thrill of the chase to get the dopamine flowing. Knowing someone’s pursuing you feeds the ego and makes you feel special, which is why many narcissists find it addictive. Narcissists love being chased because it puts them in control and boosts their fragile egos. It provides them with a sense of … Read more
Imagine your partner accusing you of being a narcissist, saying you must always be the center of attention, constantly seek admiration from others, and lack empathy for their feelings. Being called a narcissist is never pleasant, but it’s especially hurtful when there’s no truth. Sadly, narcissists accuse others of being narcissistic because they tend to … Read more
Narcissists aren’t always hypochondriacs, but they may display symptoms that suggest a certain degree of illness anxiety disorder. Some psychologists believe “Narcissistic personalities are particularly vulnerable to hypochondria,” while others maintain they’re more likely to suffer from factitious disorder. So, what’s the difference? Hypochondria is an anxiety disorder that causes the sufferer to imagine physical … Read more