I now pronounce you… …Wait! You said, ‘I Do?’ Marrying a narcissist is not the end of the world (there’s always a way out, even if it’s messy). However, understanding exactly what you’ve got into once you see the mask start to slip can be devastating. You think you’re starting a brand new chapter with … Read more
A narcissist loves to corner you until your emotions spill over. As soon as they do, they step away and shine a light on you. “Look how crazy and deluded this person is,” they innocently tell others. Well, there is actually a very interesting and effective way to handle being cornered. You don’t allow it. … Read more
Narcissistic parents talking to their kids. Narcissistic partners talking to their spouses. Narcissistic bosses talking to their employees. Their words come out of their mouth quite openly and audaciously, yet what’s going on with their eyes? Have you ever noticed a narcissist just cannot look you in the eye? Maybe they have fleeting moments where … Read more
I see it all the time… “Please help me call the narcissist in my life out. I need them and everybody around them to see the kind of person they really are underneath it all!” If it were as easy as holding them up and revealing their manipulative ways, I would be one of the … Read more
Calling out a narcissist is pointless. In fact, if I could give you negative points for doing so, I really would. It gets you nowhere fast and leads to the very type of pain and conflict you are trying hard to avoid. Narcissists have selective hearing, and they will only hear you hurting their pride. … Read more
In a world where more and more people are being affected by narcissists, it’s hard fto imagine a type of person immune to them. Imagine! Somebody who just shrugs and gets on with their day when confronted with toxic behavior. The true acceptance that narcissists live among us, but refusing to be drawn into their … Read more
One of the things I like to know I’m offering to you, are the important tools necessary for navigating life with a narcissist. I don’t want to throw information at you and walk away, so this topic is one of the most interesting questions I am often asked: Is it possible to let other people … Read more
We’re constantly told… Never get on the wrong side of a narcissist. Why? Because it means you have done something they cannot stand – and that means punishment is justified. How do we know what is going to light the fire of a narcissist, spiraling them into a rage and sending you away confused? Believe … Read more
To the narcissist – money is power. Power is also abuse. They hold it over the heads of the unsuspecting as if it is a weapon of mass destruction, because they know how to use it to manipulate. Think about it – a narcissist doesn’t know how to love people, they only know how to … Read more
Being with a narcissist is no walk in the park. What started out seeming like a fairytale quickly morphs into your worst nightmare. If you’ve been in a relationship for any length of time, you’ve probably endured name-calling, cold and callous behavior, and a variety of different forms of emotional abuse. It’s nearly impossible to … Read more