Do Narcissists Know What They Are Doing?

Do Narcissists Know What They Are Doing

It’s tempting to give narcissists the benefit of the doubt, especially if you’re in love with one. You might want to believe that they’re unaware of their destructive behavior and that their manipulative ways are completely subconscious. Many people who’ve struggled to survive a narcissistic relationship have asked themselves, “Do narcissists know what they are … Read more

5 Ways to Make a Narcissist Feel Bad for Hurting You

5 Ways to Make a Narcissist Feel Bad for Hurting You

As a rule, narcissists only care about themselves, so they will never feel bad for hurting you as long as they get what they need from the situation.  When a narcissist hurts you, it makes them feel better than you. It proves to them that they’re in control of the situation, and your emotions, which … Read more

12 Examples Of Narcissist Gaslighting in Relationships

12 Examples Of Narcissist Gaslighting in Relationships

“You’re unreasonable, over-sensitive, forgetful, and prone to irrational thoughts and over-the-top reactions.”  If any of these phrases sound familiar, you could be the victim of gaslighting. Gaslighting is a manipulative technique often employed by narcissists and psychopaths. It’s designed to make you doubt your reality and sanity and buy wholeheartedly into their version of events.  … Read more

What Happens When the Golden Child Wakes Up?

What Happens When the Golden Child Wakes Up?

A narcissistic parent doesn’t worry about favoring one child over another because each child has a specific role in their narcissistic drama. They project their failures and fears onto the scapegoat while idealizing and cherishing the golden child. As the golden child matures, they often develop narcissistic tendencies of their own, and understandably so. They’ve … Read more

What Makes a Narcissist Tick After a Breakup?

What Makes a Narcissist Tick After a Breakup?

A narcissist may come across as self-confident and successful, but nearly everything they do is a defensive tactic designed to keep their feelings of inadequacy at bay.  After a breakup, these behaviors become even more pronounced as the narcissist tries to escape feelings of loss and failure and boost their self-esteem.  To understand what makes … Read more

5 Things to Never Do After Breaking Up with a Narcissist

5 Things to Never Do After Breaking Up with a Narcissist

Breaking up with a narcissist is a complicated and stressful process, and once you’ve finally managed to extricate yourself from that web of lies and deceit, you need to protect yourself and your newfound freedom.  Turning your back on someone you once loved, even if it was someone who manipulated you at every opportunity, isn’t … Read more

How to Respond to a Narcissist and Verbally Disarm Them

How to Respond to a Narcissist and Verbally Disarm Them

It’s no secret that talking to a narcissist often feels like a lose-lose situation. You’re probably used to the narcissist manipulating reality and blaming you for everything. They don’t take personal accountability for their actions and react with rage when things don’t go their way. It can all feel frustrating and discouraging.  That said, it’s important to … Read more

What Happens When a Narcissist Meets His/her Match?

What Happens When a Narcissist Meets Their Match

As a narcissist, you believe you’re superior to everyone around you and more deserving of attention and admiration than anyone else. But what happens when you meet someone who feels the same? When two narcissists meet, you might expect them to engage in furious rivalry as they battle for the attention they desperately need, but … Read more