Have you ever heard of a femme fatale?
They might be glorified in the movies, but in real life, narcissistic women are fatal to the nervous system.
You think you know a woman, but what you’re actually seeing is the most dangerous act possible.
So, what are those 7 things that make narcissistic women so dangerous?
I have a strong feeling you’re going to need to sit down for this one.
Proof Needed – When Needed
If you ever needed any proof that a narcissistic woman is dangerous, you’ve come to the right place.
Sometimes, like a lot of victims, you might just need that validation. And validation only comes from admitting that there’s actual proof they’re dangerous. That’s why these 9 things are so important.
Raising awareness can be the proof you need, when you need it, that you aren’t going crazy, and that you are dealing with a narcissist.
Once you spot the traits of all narcissists, you will find them in all the people that are relevant – be they men or women.
It’s the women that sometimes slip under the radar, as they use their femininity to their advantage in many ways.
If you can relate to this topic already, then trust me, I haven’t even gotten started yet.
#1 Sweet on the Surface
I don’t want to get too into the difference between men and women, but I want to highlight how much easier it is for women to appear as sweet.
I don’t mean be sweet – if it’s a natural trait of who you are and part of your character.
There are plenty of women who are gentle and sweet and kind, but this is not what I mean.
What I mean here is playing the sweet game. They know they are a walking lemon, yet they roll themselves in sugar and pretend they’re sugar through and through.
They aren’t.
They’re very good actors. They know which buttons to press in order for people to mistake them as a person who is of softness and real femininity.
And guys, it’s dangerous. But what is the average person to do when they see nothing but niceness?
It’s so hard to challenge the bitterness out of them, and if you do, you can guarantee it’ll only be for your eyes only.
That’s what makes it such a risky thing to be involved with a narcissistic woman.
Run far!
#2 Queen of Manipulation
Women have multiple layers to them that make them more complex than men, and I don’t mean that in a detrimental way.
Women feel, and they like to talk and they notice the little things. They don’t forget, and often they’re the ones men rely on to help them, offer support, or bring a gentle and loving energy to the table.
They’re natural born instinctive people, and for that reason, when you get a female narcissist, you know she’s going to be the queen of manipulation.
Narcissist women know their strengths. They know how to play on them, and will do so successfully.
They can really manipulate, while simultaneously wondering why people who question them are ‘so mean.’
Some of the worst narcissistic women are siblings, or in-laws. They know the family dynamics so well that they dig deep and create a level of friction that is difficult for anybody to hold them accountable to.
It’s a dangerous part of their character, but they have perfected the role.
#3 Master of the Guilt Trip
Female narcissists love this aspect of their personality. They know it can get them anything they want, and often that comes with using their own feminine energy to get it.
The emotional complexity of a woman is not a bad thing. Their layered way of thinking adds rich color to life, and is always what gives them the upper hand in many situations. They talk, and that’s a good thing.
Female narcissists add another, mre unnecessary layer to the world, though. They also master the art of being able to guilt trip anybody they want to.
Perhaps you can remember a time this has happened to you, or when you’ve seen it with your own eyes.
The female narcissist reminds you of all the things they do for you, while you do nothing.
Maybe she says something like, “I won’t bother you again, I can see that you’re busy,” when you let them down, or say you can’t meet them, or help them when they’ve asked for it.
Maybe as their partner, and the one who works the most by far, you’ve come home and you’re too tired to get intimate.
Hearing phrases like, “You don’t love me,” or, “Why do you always insist on making me feel so terrible about myself?”, aren’t uncommon.
#4 Silent But Deadly
Narcissistic women can be so unkind when they want to be, and their silent treatment can last even longer than male narcissists.
The idea that a narcissistic woman can string out silence for a long time will come from excuses like:
Oh, I’ve just been so busy.
Honestly, it was nothing personal.
I’ve just had a lot on my mind, you know how it is.
You know all the things us women have to do, life just flies by.
We juggle so much, honestly, I’d just forgotten to reply to you.
Usually these phrases are matched with that sickly sweet, “Hi! How are you doing?”
Don’t buy any of it. And in relationships, it’ll be no different.
In truth, nobody is ever too busy.
#5 Backhanded Compliment Pro
You’re so brave to wear that!
I wish I didn’t care what people thought, like you.
It’s cute how you don’t need makeup.
You’ve come a long way for someone like you.
I could never pull that off — but it works… for you.
Your hair is so long and lovely! Have you thought about just trimming the ends to keep it healthy?
You smile at first, but then you realize you’re smiling is fading because of what else you hear.
Under the word salad, there is an insult laying there waiting for you to absorb it.
Narcissistic women are so dangerously unnecessary with their words.
#6 Social Assassin
They love it, don’t they? The moment you get a narcissistic woman out on the social scene, you will see them flourish into a butterfly.
But be careful – they aren’t as fluttery and free as they make out to be.
Living in their element means usually being surrounded by people they can show off to, entertain, tell stories too, talk of their successes, weight loss, new exercise regime, new hobby that is ‘fabulous,’ – you name it.
It’s all nothing but an excuse for everybody to think how amazing they are, but you know the truth, don’t you?
You know the real person behind the social mask. And she is horrible.
#7 Plays the Long Game
Female narcissists are in it for the long run. They know that there is a waiting game involved with a lot of relationships, and they’re equipped to handle the ‘long run.’ If anything, it makes them more loyal to their own toxic character.
They know full well what a narcissist is, more than a male narcissist would. They’re more attuned to the world, and how people think and work.
The moves others make are clocked and further calculated by them, and for that reason, they commit to being around for a long time.
Talk about making our lives even more miserable…
