The universe is wiser than all of us combined, which is why signs from it should mean we stand up and pay attention to what’s really going on.
And if we are hesitant about a person or a situation? Well you can bet your bottom dollar the universe is going to show you the right way…
… Just like showing you a narcissist live in action.
If you’re dealing with a narcissist, there are 10 signs from the universe you can look out for – so it’s time to wise up and match the energy that’s around you!
Unable to Ignore
Signs are out there for us every day to pick up and notice.
When you are dealing with a narcissist, it feels as though there’s no way of escaping the toxic way they can crush and demean you.
The universe is bigger than all of that, and you will soon enough be unable to ignore the signs it sends you to let you know there is a narcissist in your life intent on making your life unpleasant.
10 Signs From The Universe You Are Dealing With a Narcissist
#1 The Trust Has Gone
If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, there will be one day where you’ll wake up and realize that there is no trust.
Discovering the remains of what once felt like the perfect love can be devastating. You see them for who they really are, and you know that no matter how much you will or pray for that trust to return – it won’t.
You have to understand that love isn’t about overlooking every toxic aspect of your union just to stay with that person. Love is about finding somebody who respects you, and who would never dream of hurting you.
Trust is so hard to earn, and so easy to break, but what it does for you – the victim – stays with you forever.
You will take that lack of trust into whatever future relationships you have, and you will always either expect or experience the same.
The universe can call you to pay attention to any trust issues like it was waving the largest red flag imaginable.
#2 You Feel in a State of Constant Peril
Nothing feels settled anymore, does it?
I know this is a sign, because I hear of it being spoken so frequently by clients.
I just don’t seem to be able to feel safe or happy.
I feel like everything that I don’t want to happen, is happening.
Of course you do. That’s because your emotions are being bounced around like a rubber ball.
Your heart has been placed in a ping pong machine, and you are watching it being pushed and pulled around when all you want to do is feel peace.
The stillness leaves your relationship, and it makes you want to curl up and cry.
What will go wrong today?
How can I fix the conflict of yesterday?
None of this is yours to fix, because none of it was created by you.
#3 A Feeling You Cannot Shake
Intuition is something we seldom tap into these days. We’re too busy being stimulated by the tangible:
Phones.
Sounds.
Smells.
Tastes.
Lights.
Distraction!
What can sometimes lack is the time to turn inward.
What’s really going on? What’s causing that feeling of unsettlement? What’s creating this pit of heaviness in your gut?
It’s a feeling that you just can’t shake, but it’s being delivered to you by the universe in hundreds of tiny ways every single day.
It comes from having to deal with a narcissist, but it’s stemmed by all the little excuses you make for that person. Perhaps you’ve been programmed to do so, or maybe you are hoping someday it’ll change.
I will make you a promise now that it will never change.
#4 Peace? What Peace?
There is no peace when it comes to narcissists, and you will feel this the more time you spend with them.
When you’re feeling like you want to explode, and that your days just get no rest from drama and negativity, the universe is going to send you opportunities to receive how you’re feeling in the hope you can make a change and do something about it.
#5 Isolated
Isolation can sometimes give you room to think and assess what’s going on in your life.
Why does there seem to be barely any people around you? When was the last time you caught up with your friends? Do you even have any friends?
Isolation is common, and narcissists will look for any chance to make you feel more and more alone.
If you’re sensing the feeling of being cut off, you need to look outside yourself, and toward the narcissist for answers. They’re the ones who are causing it, not you.
#6 You’ve Lost Yourself
All victims of narcissistic abuse are taken to a place they don’t recognize or know themselves. The narcissist wants them to stay there, so they rot and wither into a hollow shell of who they used to be.
To you, the victim, it feels like parts of you are slipping away more and more slowly, and as time goes on, you understand yourself less and less.
The universe is great at pointing you in the direction of who you were supposed to be; where your purpose really lies.
All the while toxic people and toxic situations lead you away, you will feel that innate pull back to your true self.
#7 You Live in a Tangled Web of Deceit
It’s all around you, and you just find yourself stuck in it, like a fly in a real web.
You live among lies that are told by the narcissist, and believed by others. You’re part of the problem, but you’re not the cause. No person wants this, and no person deserves it either.
Being lied to, or about, is how you begin to feel that worthlessness creeping in…
…You know it’s not right.
#8 Do You Feel The Need to Heal?
For victims, they can wake up and feel a real need to heal. They want to grow and leave the situation they’re in.
When you see a narcissist for who they are, you can’t unsee them – not ever.
Do you understand how significant that is?
The universe is constantly giving you signs to heal.
#9 Liberation is a Step Away
Liberation is always just out of your reach, until it becomes something you can grab with both hands.
When the universe sends you this kind of message, it’s usually because the narcissist has pushed you to your limits. You can finally see al ife without them, and it doesn’t look scary anymore.
Instead, it looks incredible.
#10 Relationships Feel Heavy
All relationships have their issues, but none should feel heavy and negative all the time.
If they do, this is a sign from the universe that you are not living in a way that makes you happy, and you need to do something about it.
It’s only when you ignore signs that they become bigger than you can handle. Over time, it’s the cause of people’s mental and physical health to really take a nosedive.
Don’t let this be you!
